Contest: Life Reflections..

Yeah, you're right @bossj23, some days ago when I went to bought foodstuffs in the market, the woman opposite the shop I bought things said it slowly ohh...my grandson should look like this boy!!, she said it happily and I heard her but i ignored as she was not talking direct to me.

A lot of people are desperate especially if they're poor, not intelligent like others, not making progress and all that, in my own case I think it's a different case, I'm gonna share with y'all about my own reflection, if you journey with me you're not gonna regret, let burn it out!!!, oops before i forgot my special invitation goes to @patjewell @goodybest and @ngoenyi to take part in this contest.

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Honestly I sometimes feel like someone else is better than me in some aspects yes I can remember, during my school era I was fun of taking the 10th position in class, whenever i saw my classmates that took first, second and third position the feeling that they are better than me will fallen into me.

Apart from school, sighting people of my age doing things I can't do, buying things I can't afford to buy for my parents, the feeling that they're better than me always falls on me and if I mistakenly think of it for a while the feeling will overwhelm me.

But that doesn't make me the failure, the loser or the dumbest person as some people claimed to be yes I always feel motivated and inspired whenever I remember that none of these people can be me and they can't perform my roles more than I do.

Three features I'll love to change in my life are....

MY VOICE.

I don't speak flowly because I am a stamara, sometimes before I could complete my statement I must speak slowly, I wish to change this situation.

MY LOWER TEETH.

I love my upper teeth because they have some cap but I hate my lower teet because it is not well space like my uppers, they stick together but I'm thankful to God for giving me teeth to chew meat LoL.

MY SMALL EYES.

My eyes are very small but not like that of snakes, sometimes I have to open my wide before I could see things clear, if I have the chance even if it's two seconds trust me I'll use the opportunity to enlarge my eyes.

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I'm my humble perspective, I think it depends on how people respond when they think about their imperfections and mistakes, I think I know two types of people when it comes to reflecting on their perfection or mistakes, they are...

there are people that think about their past mistakes or imperfections when they are making decisions, this people only reflect on their past mistakes because they want to avoid making or repeating the same mistakes they made in the past again, for reasons like this it is healthy to reflect on our mistakes or imperfection because it help makes the right decisions.

But there are these types of people who think they're the worst humans that have ever existed on earth when they think or reflect on their mistakes or imperfections, it is dangerous for people like this to reflect on their mistakes or imperfections because continuously thinking about those things can critically damage their brains or cause hypertension.

Shortly, thinking about our mistakes can help make informed decisions, thinking about our imperfections or what we're not good at can create room for improvement, in this manners it is healthy to think or reflect in our mistakes or imperfections because it brings corrections and improvements, I hope i made it clear?.

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Nope, I honestly love my look although some people don't , one fact i love the most about my shape is that I'm not fat, it's not like being fat is disgusting nope it's not infact most people love to be fat and some slim people are craving to be fat, i love my look because it doesn't make me feel heavy and my height is okay with my age, I'm not too tall and I'm not short.

With my body look, I can easily get myself to where I want, I can move in my best if you doubt with me about this then you are invited to play football with me, I am always happy with the body shape God gave me and I'm thankful to him.

If I'm given the opportunity to change my desired look, I won't panic too much about the decision instead I'll keep calm, take a deep breath and respond "thank you for caring about my look but I want you to know that I'm seriously in love with my look and I want to maintain it".

We human beings are just like our fingers nail, we can never be the same or grow the same height, there must be a little difference that differentiate me from you, there's no valuable need for us to compared ourself to another, instead let's we all work to make others compare with us.

To everyone reading and supporting this post, I wish you all the best of life ❤️🫂.