Contest Winner Announcement [Can Love and Prenups Coexist]

"A premarital agreement which also can be known as prenup or prenuptial agreement, is a contract made between two different people, which is created before they get married..."

Though all participants agreed on the definition of a Prenuptial arrangement, some of the participants felt a prenup was important, and was in noway a proof of distrust between couples.

I will say that prenuptial agreement is not a sign of distrust but a based of taking away future argument between couples that can lead to distrust in marriage.

He pointed out the various ways a prenup protects children and widows in the event of death, separation or a divorce. Concluding "that love and prenups coexist in marriage and is not a bad thing." @justiceanietie believes that a prenup will give couples the opportunity to talk about important issues they would have likely avoided.

So, to put it straight, Can love and prenups coexist?

@crowd1 says yes it can coexist, it "is a settlement that deals with financial topics and does not diminish the emotional connection or commitment between companions" adding that the refusal to sign a prenup is a deal breaker to some people.

Though not every one has such a strong opinion on the issue of Prenups.

I am neutral, if my spouse says that he really wants to sign up for it, then fine. And if he wants the other way round, then fine too, I wouldn't say no to getting married to him because of his approval or disagreement over prenups. But in our world today, I will prefer signing that agreement, it is really important to also protect the lives and interest of the kids.

From @chiomzy810

Even when she really loves the idea of a prenup, she is not ready to loose her man over the insistence or refusal to sign a Prenuptial arrangement. Read through her post to see how she would convince her fiancé to sign a prenup.

When asked what he would do if his future spouse refused to sign a prenup, @israelakhere said

Marriage is a journey built on shared values, emotional connection, and the willingness to support and care for each other. While financial matters are significant, they should not be the sole determining factor in the decision to marry.