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Hello friends in the steem4Nigeria Community, I am pleased to also take part in this contest titled "Transparency in Marriage". Couples have to be transparent with each at all times, the union of marriage has clipped them to be one, therefore hiding secrets or truth will be a dangerous act to their trust and home.
Briefly explain Transparency to a layman's understanding. |
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Transparency refers to the act of being open and truthful to one another, this can be a state of trust unveiling all facts and figures to your part or another person's.
In a marriage or a relationship, transparency is the act of revealing every single secret of truth to your spouse, where you go, your salary or income, your past and present, and everything.
Transparency means clarity or open-mindedness, being trusted and always carrying your partners in all your dealings, giving an account of did and record.
What is your opinion on the need for transparency in marriage and other relationships? |
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When it comes to marriage, it is good to be transparent to your spouse, the marriage covenant has bound the husband and wife to be as one, so there should be nothing to hide from each other.
Being transparent in marriage will help the spouse keep track of assets in case the partner in charge is no more or die, it also enables partners to know their financial strength and limitations. Couples need to unveil all secrets and all deeds and plans because that will bond and increase trust among couples.
When it comes to relationships, it is also good to be transparent, the person you intend to marry should love you for who you are not for the bunch of lies you will be telling him/her.
What do you think will happen if your partner discovers you have been lying all these years? You will be seen as nothing but a coward who doesn't trust in himself or his abilities, always be truthful and transparent in a relationship.
In a case whereby one party finds out the other person keeping secrets, what do you think should be done? |
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Dialogue, yes! The best thing to do is to extensively talk with the other person in the need to be transparent and always b open to one another.
In a relationship, anything that proper and understandable dialogue does not solve, no amount of war or advice can solve it. Both parties should talk and understand the level of trust they have for each other.
If fault repeats itself over and over again, quitting is the last option to opt-in for, it is dangerous to die pretending because we all have one life to live.
Have you ever been in a relationship that lacked transparency?If yes, What did you do? But If not, what would you do? |
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No. I have never been in a relationship that lacked transparency before in my life, but in case I found myself in one, I will try my best to let my partner see the need for transparency, if she has no regard for that, I quit.
I don't hope for change when it comes to dating, I believe in what is true and instant, if the lady I am dating is not transparent and she is not ready to change, I move and let her go at once.
The way to understand this truth is to always be truthful to yourself first before considering your actions, I know that nobody is perfect but please run if your partner always hides important truths from you.
Can truth be hidden forever? |
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No. Truth can not be hidden forever no matter what. Truth is an event of fact, occurrence, or action that is intended to be hidden and mostly involves two or more people who promise to keep it a secret, one situation or the other must make it be revealed.
Truth is like a light covered by the darkness of a million lies, many people lie to gain favor and worth once the favor is not there the truth comes out.
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Transparency is very important in marriage, relationships, and to most people you trust, No matter how long the truth is hidden, the truth shall be revealed, it can be hidden for some time but not forever.
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I appreciated your hard work . You have raised many good points about transparency in any relationship. And yes I agreed that truth always come out in any form of or at any time . People should get ready to face what they have done. I wish your all the best for this contest. I have shared my entry too if you have time to share your feedback on my post so it will be honour for me.
https://steemit.com/hive-147599/@yourloveguru/steem4nigeria-accelerator-contest-week4-transparency-in-marriage
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Transparency is an important ingredient needed in the relationship.
If it's not there, the relationship will go sour.
I wish you will in your contest entry.
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