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If you don't want unholy fires to erupt in your heart and home spontaneously, do not spend any length of time in the company of an old flame, especially alone, worse still in a private place and at night. If you must be in their company for whatever reason, be with a chaperone who you are accountable to, preferably your spouse.
No matter your intentions, the old flame knows what works and what doesn't work in getting to your mind and heart. The reason he or she is called an old flame is because he or she has previously successfully ignited your fires. It is easier for them to do it again without hiccups and delays and you are amenable to their charms as your logs recognise that flame.
They hold the back door key to your emotions and the only way to ensure security of that back door is to change the lock by recognising the issues I have addressed and giving a wide berth to those old flames.
The old flames are what is found on your old Adamic nature that shall in no way be seen as long as you are putting on the new nature. Old thing are passed away, dealt with on the cross of Calvary by the man Yeshua HaMashiac. We are filled with the holy spirit of God when we got born again.
Being born again, we are expected to cut old bridges of old flames. You don’t keep bridges while the enemies are looking to have access to you. Cut all links so you can be focused in your pilgrims journey, bearing on you flames of godly fire that is able quench the ferry dearth of the enemy, Satan the devil.
Don't fool yourself that you are a spiritual giant and ignore this advice, the devil will have you for dinner! Flee from all appearance of Evil! Keep this advise and you and your family would be happier for it. Don't go down that crooked path, the end is destruction! Selah!