SPENDING EVERY MOMENT IN LOVE

Love is like a rose but with thorns that can choke one to death. There is one thing you can never understand, it is: love. When you try to understand it, it imprisons you.

“Professors are newborn babies when it comes to love”

IF FIVE WORDS WERE LEFT BEFORE I LOSE MY VOICE

If five words were left of me to say before I lose my voice this is what I will say to my loved ones.

“ I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH”

I will definitely make sure they have the most happy moments they have ever had with me. I will make sure I create an impact with those five words left by me to say before losing my voice.

THE BEST RELATIONSHIP ADVICE I RECEIVED

Some advice tends to build or destroy you, so when taking an advice do well to filter what you need.

Tough time don't last, but tough people do.

I was emotionally unstable for some period. I felt I couldn't confide in anyone about how I felt. They won't understand me I said to myself. It's really difficult to have people understand you.

I decided to confide in my teacher. Teachers are amazing humans. They are underrated I sometimes think.

She said:
Relationship is about giving in your all, tough times comes in relationships but they don't last. Good times too comes but in all preserve, pray work hard to build what you share together in a relationship.

Love forgives, forgets, endures, accepts, mould you and the other into becoming that dream woman and man you wish to be.

Love doesn't boast, it is not proud, it doesn't find fault, it doesn't discriminate.

Love unconditionally, if at the end it breaks then it wasn't meant to be. The real one will always stay.

FALLING OUT OF LOVE

People do tend to fall out of love. Have you ever wondered Why?

Let's use Kiara's experience;

She fell in love and gave in her all yes tough times do come but she saw life on the brighter side with her soon to be husband. She prayed, became dedicated and tend to drive away suitors just to be loyal for her soon to be husband.

Two months to their marriage, he travelled abroad without informing his fiancee Kiara.
She soon got to find out from her soon to be in-laws who stated that he went to help his pregnant wife out abroad. For four good years, Kiara was considered as the family friend but was being deceived by Louis that she will be her wife.

She left without a single word. She was shattered, broken, torn apart. It's better to read of heartbreak than experience it. Do you think she can ever trust the next?? It will be difficult and no matter how good the next person is , she will still have her fears.

• When you love unconditionally and then in the end, you are hurt. I think you will fall out of love no matter how nice other people treats you.

• You fall out of love when you don't match their energy or personality.

• You can fall out of love with someone who tends to be negative.

• You can fall out of love with someone who doesn't have dreams or ambitions.

• You can fall out of love with people whose attitudes are unworthy of emulation

People fall out of love for different reason. A friend once said; I fell out of love with her because she is clingy and cares too much.

Another once said; I fell out of love with him because of his complexion. Funny enough people fall out of love for different reasons.

CHEATING IS NEVER ACCEPTABLE

In a relationship where there is trust, cheating is and should never be acceptable in a relationship.
You can't have one who is faithful and truthful to you and you cheat in them. The following may occur;

• Distrust: trust is the hardest thing to find but the easiest to lose. A cheating partner can never be trusted with his/her words.

• Hurt/ pain; The pain created can take time to heal.

• Broken communication; cheating can cause scarcity in communication between both partners.

• Emotional distancing: you can distance yourself from your partner. Geminis are good at this.

• Social consequence: your reputation might be damaged, integrity ruined.

• Unfair advantage: your partner may tend to do same by cheating on you.

Relationship damage: it can lead to separation or divorce.

Cheating is never acceptable because it violates boundaries.

CAN A RELATIONSHIP EXIST WITHOUT LOVE?

No relationship can exist without love.
It is even said;

“ For God so love the world that he gave his only begotten son.

The greatest commandment is that you love your neighbor as yourself”.

So therefore, Love is as old as man. A relationship without love or a one sided love is toxic and won't last.

In everything you do, let love lead.

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