Diary game: summary of olden days married ( 4/2/2025.

Hello good people of steemit,I gree u all specially this day , hope u r all doing good as for me am super awesome. I'm here to brief u guys about olden days married back then in the 16 century or so .

So few years back I was opportune to sit with my late grandma who later pass away and leave me behind, so sitting with her and gisting I was giving opportunity to ask any questions I like, I was so excited cause I was always looking for opportunity like this to ask what was has always been in my heart, So I begin thus: Grandma can u please tell how married was done back then in ur time? Omg she just looked at me and laugh and was like my daughter, married back then was like a millitary Force,if I should tell you about it,u will be glad u were not born then🤣

So she begins,my daughter imagine being born into a famous family like my own in which at that point children should have been train very well since there was resources but my own was different,then I asked her why ? She said,my Dad refuse to do that cause he said he is not much interested in females education cause there is nothing he will Gain ,fo that reason he gave out my elder sister's out for marriage at a very young age of 12 even though she was not interested in the marriage and more over they brought an old man for her to marry,(imagine that) My cry pleasing with my father that she doesn't want to marry now,he beat her and force her to marry after her primary school 😌. In my heart,I was like chaiii, what kind of life is that.

So she pause a little bit , started crying and continue from where she had stop , So me seeing how my father did this to my elder sister I was afraid knowing fully that I will be the next,so I run out of the house after my primary school 😌 to my aunt's place cause I was not ready to marry at the age of 12,I ran to her knowing fully that she was ready to train me in school of my kind , but getting there my father had already called her to return me to him or else he will come there and make problem with her ,so that was how my aunty return me back to the village, Getting there,they have already brought a man to marry me , I started crying that I don't don't want to marry now ooo

Even after my crying and pleasing I was still out to marry that man by force, the only difference from my grandma's marriage and that of her sisters own is that she got marry to a young man while her sister's own was an old man.
So my contribution to my grandma's story was that so ,they don't ever considered if u love the person or not chaiii 😏
If na me I for don run leave that marriage oo I can no come n marry who I no like 🤣🤣

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