Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 57: What gender do you prefer your child to be?

Hello Steemit friends,
how are you all? I hope you are all well by the grace of Allah. I am also fine by the grace of Allah.Today, I will participate in the new contest from Steem4Nigeria brought by the honorable Admin. The name of the Contest is "Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 57: What gender do you prefer your child to be?" Thank you Steem4Nigeria for bringing this beautiful contest to us.

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∞🔸∞As a Muslim, I believe that children are a special gift from God Almighty. A child plays a special role in creating a happy environment with peace and happiness in the family. I also believe that a child comes into the world with his sustenance. Still, we make various plans around children. As a father of two children, I make various plans around the children. Now let's talk about the children and see the answers to the questions of the respected admin sir.*

I am a father and I have a son and a daughter. As a father, I think whether it is a boy or a girl the cost depends on how I train them. If I see both my children as children. Do, as well as want to train with equal facilities then I believe the cost will be roughly the same.
I don't think it will cost one way for a boy and another for a girl.
First of all, I have to stop thinking about boys and girls separately. I have to accept in my heart that they are both my children. I have to train them according to my ability. No institute sets different prices for boys or girls.
In summary of my discussion, I can say that the cost of training as a boy or a girl is not determined more or less. It is more or less determined by how much I want to train my children.

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I am currently a father of two children. Before my child came into the world, I had no choice or dislike about having a boy or a girl. Shortly, if I want a child, I will not think about having a boy or a girl. I have already said that according to our religious beliefs. The great creator decides whether it will be a boy or a girl. I myself am happy with whomever he sends. If it is a boy, I am equally happy and I will be equally happy if it is a girl.
And in the modern era, many of us scientists have some ideas about the processes of childbirth, from there we know that the combination of sperm and egg depends on whether a child is a boy or a girl. So my likes or dislikes do not matter.

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• Any boy or girl can become out of control during adolescence. If family ties are good, out of control is less, and if family ties are weak, boys are more likely to become out of control compared to girls in adolescence. There are several reasons behind this. :-
• Boys are born independent. In adolescence, boys feel too big and like to make their own decisions. Because of this, they sometimes get out of control.
• Girls are usually confined to the house more but boys spend more time outside the house. Due to this behavior, many times they go out of control.
• Boys have to spend most of the day outside the house playing sports, hanging out with friends, and passing idle time. Many times, even they are likely to get out of control.

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In answer to this question, I would say a boy can do many things, he can become an earning member of the family in future,
Parents and family can take all the responsibilities and can devote themselves to the development of society and the country.
A girl can also do similar tasks as a boy. However, we see girls more engaged in housework. Especially cleaning the house, and serving parents, are good for girls.
Finally, I will say, children should be treated as children. Also, they should be given special training regarding family responsibilities during their adolescence. If we can give them a good education, both boys and girls will be considered as our invaluable resources.

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