MONEY AND MARRIAGE

Good morning everyone, hope you guys are all doing well, it's been a while though, been down with issues lately, feel happy to be back, and I want to appreciate @manuelhooks for creating this contest, regarding the issues some family and marriage didn't work out financially.

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IS MONEY CENTRAL TO FAMILY HAPPINESS? IF YOU THINK IT IS, EXPLAIN, BUT IF YOU THINK IIT'SNOT, PLEASE TELL US WHAT IT COULD BE

Money is everything in a marriage, with the way the country's economy is, no one will like to settle down with a man who literally can't afford quality squared meals, good education for their children, and the modern lifestyle, happiness comes when the family or marriage has all it takes.

You can't be lacking your needs and be happy at the same time, aside from money, happiness includes peace of mind, and understanding each other with love, care, and attention but when money is not there, such couples will record different marital cases daily, they will lack the basic love and might even go separate ways.

Talking about dating for instance which is the primary one, you need money to keep your girl, there's a high possibility of a breakup when you don't have money.

Someone else will send your understanding girlfriend money, she won't understand you in her life again, so please, money is much important in marriage and family

WHAT ARE SOME COMMON MONEY-RELATED ISSUES AMONG COUPLES IN YOUR AREA, DOES THIS HAS A CULTURAL UNDERTONE?

I came from a low-level financial home, I know what my guardian and my siblings pass through, money-related issues, which I think is a general issue in most homes are extraordinarily, sometimes not enough or not completely available.

AFTER WEDDING DEPT

I pity some people cases seriously, some couple's weddings are celebrated in a grand style, but after weeks in the marital home, you hear them talking about settling the balance, I know of a man who is still paying for the traditional balance to the inlaws both the wife has divorced him.

POOR PARENTAL TRAINING

Due to financial issues, taking for instance when the husband is more financially upright, the children tend to respect him more and this could sometimes mislead the children's love towards the mother that's if the father is not caring enough to notice.

We see situations where the children lack basic fundamental knowledge because of poor parenthood, they don't eat a balanced diet, and lack some basic family needs due to financial issues,

But when money is in the hood, things will be financed without noticing the change in the economy

HOW WILL YOU DEAL WITH A SITUATION WHERE A SPOUSE FEELS THAT YOUR MONEY IS OUR MONEY BUT MY MONEY IS MY MONEY

As a man, learn to adapt to all these kinds of issues before you settle down, toxic relationships and some double date experience so you know how fit you are to tackle marital problems, lol, hope am not misleading someone, try a much a possible and work harder to have the financial freedom to carter for the family without assistance.

IN YOUR OPINION, IS YOUR WIFE OBLIGATED TO SUBMIT HER SALARY TO HER HUSBAND AT THE END OF EACH MONTH? OR SHOULD IT BE THE OTHER WAY ROUND.

It's very bad for my wife to submit her salary to me, I respect her hard work, and women hate it when you don't appreciate their efforts, if she's good, she'll support with what she can, I won't even suggest joint account for my family, because I trust my wife.

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I can also help in some areas of her life financially if she needs me, we'll be more like a soulmate affair.

WHY IS MONEY SUCH A BIG ISSUE IN MARRIAGE LATELY, WHAT MEASURES DO YOU[ OR WILL YOU] TAKE TO MITIGATE THIS PROBLEM

Competition about how to look good is going on daily, and more challenges are arising, so I suggest not to bite more than I can chew, I'll be fine with what I have, live and simple life to the fullest and make sure whom I have as a wife at home is not a competing type.

Firstly, I wanna honor @yhudy's invites to the contest, and also invite this users
@vudeme123
@simonnwigwe
@josepha