Steemit Engagement Challenge S5-W2 - My 3 Best Characters Vs 3 Worst Characters".

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Hey friend☺️😍,

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Once again I am glad participating in this week engagement contest hosted by this great community with great leadership, the pleasure is mine. Every living thing have a way of life and attitude that defines what the live for and what the die for, this way or attitude a particular person displays is known as character of that personal. This character determines what you are or what you will become in future, this is what others used to define you.

As living beings we are all expected to practice good character because a good character would build a good relationship with others and a better environment for all, whenever you display more 50% bad character you would be declared or marked a bad person but if you exhibit more than 50% good character you will be honored as a good person, so therefore in other words it's always adviced that we continuously exhibit good character.

There are different types good characters

Example of bad characters

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This are some of the most common types of character, they are so many characters that are displayed by so many people. Some might have similar characters while some might have totally different characters but one thing is sure, all being must have a character.

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List 3 characters of yours that are the best or good characters that you have. Explain them and how you display them.

Yeah just like every human I also have different characters which might either be good or bad, the thing is everyone has that character stuff and despite how terrible you look or act you also have good character. Even Osama bin laden one of the world deadliest terrorist also had some good character, it just that the bad characters over shadowed the good characters.

I love to stand by my words

This has been one my major characters and it has caused me more friends and at same time more enemies, this is because despite who is involved I love to do what what I have said and planned to and this has really caused me quarrel with anyone who oppose or try to restrict me from achieving my words. For example I had an appointment with a newbie on steemit after today football training and I was supposed to go to the training with Ebuka by 4 pm before the appointment but when the time reached I went to meet Ebuka who was one of my best friend.

Sadly he was saying that the sun was to hot that I should postpone my appointment and training but I disagreed and left angrily and he was also angry that I left. On the other hand I have made friends who respect me for that, on different occasions I have done as I promised or said and I deliver on time.

I Give Everyone A Chance

From the very beginning I believe that every man has a soft spot despite how deadly or evil the look, and as humans it's our duty to give them a chance who knows you might be the one destined to change them. I am not good at condemning someone despite the situation or look of the person, this has made me met great and awesome personal.

I Always Smile

Some years ago one of my senior college stopped me to ask me why I frown my face while walking but I smile like no tomorrow as soon I am spoken to, can you guess my reply? I just smiled without saying anything. I love to smile because I really discovered nothing is worth more my joy and happiness, so despite the condition I usually find a reason to smile again. Infact also discovered smiling stresses lesser vain in your face so therefore it helps make one look fresher and younger.

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Would you advise others to display them?

Yes, definitely this character are lovely and awesome and so many people have loved and respected me for this character, it might no be easy to learn or start with but one thing I am sure of is everyone need to adapt to this lovely character.

I believe if so many people adapt to this character the world turn out to be a better place for all to stay, for example a person who smiles always won't have time to plot evil because your heart would only be filled with positive vibes and energy. A negative thinker can't always smile even if the wish to because negative though would only make one always frown and aggressive to himself and to the environment where the resides.

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What are the 3 worst Characters that you sometimes display that even you condemn?

Despite my good characters i always display, I also have a downside which are my bad characters. This bad character has really spoiled my relationship with some people purposely and accidentally, but if you compare my negative characters and compare them with my positive character you would know that I am a changed man because most of the good characters were initiated to disable my bad lifestyle.

Anger issues

Despite the fact I always smile, I really get very angry when I am made to, I am really a gentle soul but I change as soon as I notice you are trying to take advantages of my good heart. My guys would say I two faced because I could be the direct opposite of original self if I am made to.

The only going thing about my anger is that with so much endurance I have learned to delaybthe angry me, infact I laugh or smile when I am about to get angry to calm my self but if they temptation persist I might respond negatively by unleashing the temper. To be sincere I am really sad when ever I discovered I just let anger take over because I act drastically when I enter beast mode but my personal anger control stradigy is good and has made me rarely loose my temper with I an average of 8 time's a year and this is ok for me.

Stubbornness

I am really gentle but at times I am also stubborn, although I have move the stubborn vibes into my financial sector which has turned stubbornness to persistency. As I have said before I don't turn my back when I conclude on something, so therefore I won't listen to any opposing Idea no matter the source. No matter the risk involved I would rather fight through than I give up or go back. I called it a negative character because the opposing might come from a supreme or senior personal.

Shyness

Free Source

Although I try fighting this most fundamental negative character by doing things that scares me, but I know the introvertive attributes won't leave me permanently. I have the ability of staying indoors for months without calling or chatting anyone and I will still feel better and saver, although I know it's not good for an adult male like me so I try my best to fight this bored attributes of me by looking at people eyeballs of people and by going on walks regularly.

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Will you like to stop them? What efforts have you been making toward stopping them?

Sure I don't like any of my negative characters and I have made some necessary steps to stop or hinder them from taking over me. No one should ever be proud of their bad sides because it says a lot of negative things to do.

• I first of all put them in prayers, I believe with God all things are possible, despite how much we wish to change, it all by the grace of God because this character are really really had to change. For example the anger, stubbornness and shyness were my in-built attributes from birth, so I believe I need divine assistance with them and to God be the glory, they are all under control.

• If therefore if there are so difficult to change I would just find a way to input the opposite like smiling in my daily activities and this has really controlled my anger issues, infact I can't remember when last I was so hot and angry. You all know introvert can't look at people eyeballs but I would force myself to maintain eye contact for as long as possible.

• I always attach my self with object or things to that would help me control my bad attitude, for example I am always with my earpiece listening to cool music and this has really lifted my mood, also I have learned to always participate in group exercise and this has really Improved me

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Conclusion

Characters says a lot about you whether good or bad but know one thing, you can be better no matter how bad you are. Please don't be scared of your lifestyle and everyone has very bad characters just that the chose to show you their nice side. Finally always try harder to Better your self by working on your weak points.

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Thank you very going through @starrchris cares❤️

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_{I am inviting @jueco @preye2 and @sahmie @nadiaturrina @liasteem @solexybaba to participate in this contest}

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