Hello Steemians, how are you doing today? I am here today to share my post with you as my participation in the contest that @okere-blessing organized in the Steem4Nigeria community.
What is engagement in a relationship?
Engagement in a relationship is the process by which a man proposes to a lady. Engagement in a relationship is a sign of showing interest and that you want to marry the lady. By engaging a lady, you have deprived other guys of seeking a relationship with her. Engagement is the first step that is taken in order to marry a lady.
At what age should a guy or lady be engaged?
26 years old. I think the right age for a guy or lady to be engaged should be 26 years old. Because at this stage, I'm sure both the guy and the lady are mature enough to handle a home and a family of their own. Well, today, age doesn't really matter much in a relationship. What is considered first is money, whether there is money to take care of the family.
What are the things you consider in a person before engaging or accepting engagement?
As a lady, before I accept a man's engagement, I will ensure that the man meets the requirements below.
- He must be a God-fearing man.
- He must truly love me, as he claims.
- Likewise, he must be caring and loving.
- He should be ready to have time for his family.
- He should be a working-class or businessman.
How long is right for engagement before marriage?
To me, three years is the best time for engagement before marriage. Within 3 years of courtship, both parties will know each other better and have settled their discrepancies.
Are there things that can change someone's mind after engagement?
Yes, there are things that can change someone's mind after engagement, which are:
- Cheating/Lies
- Sickness
- Genotype difference
- Family background
- Unfaithfulness
Is engagement a guarantee for marriage?
Engagement is not a guarantee for marriage. Engagement is not legally binding yet. When the lady or man is not faithful, the man can leave the lady for another one, and vice versa. Also, if the man comes across another lady by the time he has traveled out for a long time, he may cancel his first engagement and others.
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Truly, age isn't all that matters.
They both should be ready and prepared to financially handle a home.
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