"Steemit Engagement Challenge S5-W2 - My 3 Best Characters Vs 3 Worst Characters".steemCreated with Sketch.

in hive-147599 •  2 years ago 

Edited with photocollage

A worm greetings to all the members of this noble community, it's another week of the season 6 engagement challenge contest and I'm so glad that I'm starting the week2 contest here in this community on the theme “my best characters Vs 3 worst character ” Indeed as humans, we have some character which is part of us either good or bad, some of this character do affect us either positively or negatively. But before I share my character with you all let me refresh our minds on what character is.

The character can be seen as the moral or mental qualities of an individual, that is to say, it can be how someone thinks, behaves, and feels. Or it is a feature or attribute that distinguishes and makes up an individual.

List 3 characters of yours that are the best or good characters that you have. Explain them and how you display them.
  • Soft heart
  • Consistency
  • Being myself

Soft heart

There is a lot of dispute to this view because people tend to take advantage of me for being easygoing but I do overlook them. I tolerate everybody to some extent and try to make sure I flow with everybody. This special character makes many people wish to be close to me and I am so happy that I am a positive note on people's minds. I can dissatisfy myself to please others, I sometimes take people's burdens as mine and I love to see everybody happy.

Consistency

Consistency is one of the best characteristics I love about myself anytime I have a target I always try my best to see that the goal of mine has been archived for instance here in steemit I have made it a duty on my site to always post one article daily and always power up my earnings. Oh yes, that was my plan. I wished to be in club 100 which by the grace of God that has been achieved also I want to be a dolphin this year, as I always say, I don't know how I will do it but I know my consistency towards archiving this set goals will come to pass because I will never stop until my aims are being fulfilled.

Being Myself

source

One of the characteristics I love about myself is being myself, I always cut my Coat according to my size and I'm always contented with what I have. I can't change myself simply because I want to impress someone no! I don't do that. I always manage what I have and wish for the best for myself. I don't compete with other people's success I just try my very best to see I excel in what I love and do best.

Would you advise others to display them?
Ooh yes, I would advise others to display them because the characters are working for me and I believe if one should adopt the same then it will go a long way for that person's also, it will enable you to tolerate people, And you can make an impact in the in your life and that of others.

What are the 3 worst Characters that you sometimes display that even you condemn?
  • Anger
  • Stubbornness
  • Being impatient

Anger

source

Anger is one of the worst and the strongest characteristics I have, I don't enjoy it at all but anytime I try to control myself over it but I still find myself doing it. I'm someone that gets angry easily especially when I'm being hurt by someone close to my heart I so much have this belief that anyone that loves me will never hurt me no matter what but I know that's just my thoughts because we are just humans and everyone can make mistake including myself. Seriously if I can get a way in which anger will live my life completely I will enjoy it. But as it stands now I'm seriously praying and working towards it.

Stubbornness

Stubborn is another character I don't like about myself, I so much like doing things when I'm not asked to do them, and sometimes that thing usually courses problems for me and in the end, I will regret why i did it. Also, I like taking risks without minding the consequences when I was a child, my mum always worn me not to go out but because of my stubbornness I will go when she is not around at some point I was playing with my friends bicycle then I failed down and heat my head on the wall, that day I was injured and I tried hiding it away from my mum but for where she found out and dealt with me seriously but it did not stop me from doing what I want to do anytime she is not home. I want to change this character and I have been working on it also because it will land me in a bigger problem someday.

Being impatient

source

Hmmm, this is another character that I don't like about myself. F firstly I'm the kind of person that I want things to be done on my own time and Ty own well without considering others, I don't like waiting for long, whether we argue about a specific time let's keep to it or not once I'm at the meeting point for 30min and you don't show up it will get me upset and I will live without considering if the other person has any personal issues. Mostly if I go out to make my hair if I noticed there are many people and I know they won't attend to me on time I will just go back home and come back when I feel I won't be waiting for anyone. I have been trying to work on it but hopefully, it will gradually live me in due time.

Will you like to stop them? What efforts have you been making toward stopping them?
I will love to stop them but as humans, it's not always easy to stop some characters, with the help of God I believe I will stop all those bad characters of mine. I always pray to God for a change and I have been working toward it as well. When someone upset me I always try to let it go and that has been helping me a lot to reduce the anger in me. It's not easy but I'm glad that I'm working on it and I didn't get upset over little things.

In conclusion, the character is something that everyone pursues, both the good and the bad but the bad aspect of it is what we can't change easily it has to take some time and process before we can completely abstain from those characters. And I believe with God all things are possible. I want to invite @temitopef @sahmie @arahman to come and participate in this contest.

Authors get paid when people like you upvote their post.
If you enjoyed what you read here, create your account today and start earning FREE STEEM!
Sort Order:  

You should not feel bad for negative characters as everyone possess some negative characters. Instead of feeling bad for that, you must try to remove them .

🤗🤗 thank you sir, i'm most grateful for the encouragement.

You've got a free upvote from witness fuli.
Peace & Love!

Dear @yakspeace, don't feel bad at all about your worst characters because everyone possesses them or something similar. Just work on them and wait for possible results.

Together, you have beautiful good sides as well and that alone can always speak for you.

Success!

Thank you very much ma. I appreciate your kind words and encouragement 🤗

Loading...

Consistency is a really valuable character. I'm glad you achieved your goal of being in club100.
I do hope you eventually get to dolphin status

Hopefully i will achieve that. Thank you very much.

Knowing ourselves and our ability is the best thing because we will be able to work on changing the characters we know we have but are not too good enough to be the best of ourselves. I'm sure with time you will be able to stop all the characters you don't like. Thanks for the invite dear

You have said it all my dear friend, thank you for the kind comments i really appreciate.

TEAM 1

Congratulations! This post has been upvoted through steemcurator04. We support quality posts , good comments anywhere and any tags.

Curated by : @fjjrg


commnt1.jpg

Thank you for the support sir.

Wow it seems like we have so similarities especially in the bad side, probably I will call my sis in crime 🌝. I am also glad that you have impacted so precautionary measure to eradicate the bad characters whi you also have and no distance time I believe you will become a better person with lesser bad attitude.

Thank you very much for sharing, please you can check my own entry here

wishing you success

For sure i will sir. Thank you for visiting my blog i really appreciate your comment.

Those 3 negative characters you mentioned affects almost everyone. It is a good thing that you are working on them. That should be the case for everyone.

Nice entry dear
You're right js really good for someone to be themselves wherever the find themselves.
I wish you luck dear

wow you've got enviable characters here and i love to meet people with these positive character... i also want to be consistent. sometimes consistency is a problem for me.
And for the negative character, like you said its always not easy. but i encourage you to apply same consistency and shorty they will be a thing of the past

Thank you for the encouragement i will actually work on them. Thank you for visiting my blog i really appreciate.

Am glad been soft-hearted is one of your best characters because that is what every woman should expect.

Impatient is really a worst character dear, I hope you will be free from it soon.