Steem4Nigeria Accelerator Contest Week4- Transparency in Marriage.

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This is @yourloveguru from India. This is really amazing contest which has been launched by @steem4nigeria in this community.

Basically we need to talk about importance of transparency in relationship so let's start this post :

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Briefly explain Transparency to a layman's understanding

Transparency is very important in every relationship. When you are transparent on your points & start any relationship, that will never fail. When someone hide, it means he is not loyal to you and these type of relationship are always on risk point . So always be transparent to your partner, friends, neighbours or with any one.


What is your opinion on the need for transparency in marriage and other relationships.

Transparency is most important thing in marriage. When someone want to marry so they seek loyal partner who will not ditch to them.

As I am boy so I represent boys here that mainly boys always hide few things like :

1 Alcoholic habit
2 Real Salary Package
3 Properties ownership
4 Bank balance
5 Extra Affiar
6 Smoking habit
7 Excessive angernes
8 Abusing habit

These are few points where boys think if they are hiding so it is okay because it is not deceive to girls. But is this transparency? Ofcourse not ! Girl has right to know each n every point 👉 then only we can say transparency in marriage.


In a case whereby one party finds out the other persons keeping secrets, what do you think should be done?

It is mostly done in India. To find right partner is like to find God in darkness. People use to hide many things now a days. I m sorry to say that there is no transparency remain.

Well if one party find out the other person keeping secrets so without wasting a single minute, take a decision to close all chats, contacts with that person because If base is weak so no relationship will sustain. Immediately close all chats and break all contacts with them.


Have you ever been in a relationship that lacked transparancy

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Fortunately, I always try to be transparent in my marriage but my elder brother is rascal. He got married with Simmi. I remember when Simmi Parents had come to see him, so he pretended himself very good human, caring, responsible but actually he is useless, he is good for nothing.


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Simmi life had been pathetic after got married to my elder brother. He is bloody useless. She became sad now because transparency was missing in starting of their relationship.


Can truth be hidden forever ?

Never ! Truth come in any form and at any time. Like I said above about my elder brother. After marriage of 5 months, Truth had come infront of Simmi that her husband is rascal and her life became pathetic.


Conclusion

It is my advice that please be transparent in every relationship. If you will serve loyalty, trust, care to your partner, you will get same in return. Hope my article will help you.


I would like to invite my few friends for this contest:

@aviral123, @moyeon, @radjasalman, @franyeligonzalez , @ridwant , @damithudaya


Thanks 😊


@yourloveguru


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Yeah, you made a good point here by point out a story that talk about transparency and it's possible side effects. In the case of your brother there will never be trust again from simmi because the relationship foundation was built on lies and deceit which may not stand the test of time. Wish you all the best in your contest.

it is mostly done in India. To find right partner is like to find God in darkness.

It's every where not in India alone @yourloveguru even in my country is the same.

But I think every good things come from God. Some one needs to pray for a good life partner. Thanks for sharing your contest with me.

Every relationship that must last and that must be enjoyed needs transparency.
I'm so sorry about your sister.
You have made a good content here.
I wish you well in your participation.