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In our entire life we often go through many situations for many such things which we feel that these are one of those complicated things which we are having and which we have to go to school today I am not talk about one such topic which is one of the most complex once and is full of complexity life of a girl and it is not about someone's biography or story but that her life it is full of complexity no is not that I am talking about the life of girls in general
I like to mention that in this one I am writing in this article writing with the complete a thought for thought of view which with which is based upon the Asian mentality as it happens in Asia and I myself have witnessed it have experienced it and have seen it got so upon those places and read this article or write this piece of writing and I am not gonna be including or influencing this piece by any of the European and of cultures or just thinks as I am not having much knowledge about that so you might feel this article a bit of contradicting so that this reason maybe that one.
So to break this town I am gonna mention the different phases of life that a girl has to through and spaces are the one which they are to go to and have to pass and they have to pass and after that only they can go to the next level the next phase.
Show the first phase is with which to begin is the beginning of life itself when that girl is born period many people having mix kind of thoughts that what you are gonna be planning in the future with this new baby child we are having and the different kind of thoughts that they are having the mines are really can of mixed and that makes can of feelings do open surface as been that this is a girl she won't be much of used for us as she would be going away after marrying and she won't be taking care of us and this kind of thought process start to work.
At the same time we also see another thought process which is a comparison between a boy and a girl this thing really happens in the Asian communities and specifically in my country India I have seen many such cases and people do often very talk about this can think the thing is that they have a sensation are they have a feeling that a boy if we raise a boy then we would be having benefits in the future as he will be staying with us and we will be taking care of us where as a girl would be the exact opposite I should be going away and living as deserting us and that is not happening after she get married so that is why people are kind of really very negative very this kind of things this negative things they are thinking and doing to the girl child .
From this we can conclude that the mentality of raising a boy is of selfishness and that is because just I told as they raise the boy because the other thing that his PNB treating them is done by keeping them good and their future as a girl want it should be going away after marrying and at the same time the parents for the people who raised the girl child are having a very selfless heart as they knowing the fact that she can be going away is not taking care of them 3 they are still caring her they are still giving education to her they are still giving her what she should be given.
Now comes the second phase of life in a girls life and most one of the most influential events that a girl ever goes to in her entire life and this is yes you guess that right it is the wedding.
The girl is plunged into a number of thoughts and really a very complex situation as now you are having a new life cannot think you are having a new relationship and all those old relationship are gonna be fading after you get married and at that time of pay at that time period it is really very hard to think about this kind of things and take decisions and very simple example to support this is that when the groom comes to attend the wedding and the procedure is considering the bride is coming with entire group of people which we call Bharat in India locally and won the marriage ceremony is over once the wedding is over and their the couple is married then the Baraat doesn't acompany them they go solo and they go on a new track in their life and all those old relationships these signifies the old relationship they keep them back and move on tour New destination.
Love comes and other face in the life of a girl which is another yet Complex one and in this one it is quite depending upon this that kind of situation when the girl is plans in two and in this case the girl when if she feels ok or if he is able to manage with a new relationship she is into and with family she went into Then there would be maybe the meaning of the oldest it would be violent and this kind of things will be starting from the real start as it is in your life or another thing which can happen is that it The frequencies cannot match with between the new relationship of the family she went into then the another face mein open and that is called the divorse which is another face and this is another very complex situation is called you know discuss about this in detail so you know about this and you can guess what happen.
And if the option to is taken the diverse when it is turned off hitting the reset button in the life and you again try to go back to the place where you work and from the place where you left and that place you wanna go back to an encounter with the number of problems that you are gonna be accepted by your family members that you are gonna be with them again like you were and this kind of questions will arise so this is another Complex situation.
Amongst all these Complex situations throughout the life and number of problem coming in an coming by this kind of mentality is the mindset of people and what people think that people can I do what people are gonna treat a girl like these all kind of these all sorts of things really Shape Up a girl's life in reality to be a very very very complex situation which is really kind of a thing which we should think about and Ravi should change this as well.
Thanks to education and increasing Awareness to increasing people which is because that many kind of these mindset are now diminishing and fading away with the passage of time and women are again been treated like the way they should have been and they are getting equal opportunities and this kind of things which are really do things we should wish we should not even think about because they are really very normal things why we are making them an issue but they have become an issue but the thing is a good part is that they are becoming the the way they should have been.
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