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I think that relationships are one of the most special things in life when we can find someone that we can form an intimate connection with it gives a lot of meaning to what's going on around us. It helps us share the challenges with someone else, share the happy times, share the sad times but the key is when someone wants an open relationship it may be introducing elements of insecurity, elements of instability so we need to ask ourselves are we both in the relationship growing and evolving together which is really the key about relationships. We're helping each other move through life or has the relationship become stagnant.
If it's the case that the relationship has become stagnant and one person is trying to find a way to introduce more novelty to shake things up, it's really important that you're both aware of what's going on and that you make the decision to enter into an open relationship with the full knowledge that you're doing this so that you can introduce this structure where you are growing and evolving together because at its core.
Get clear on your motivations for the open relationship on what you really want. How you really feel about this relationship whether it's working out or not whether it's helping you grow and evolve. I think that if you do that right now you will come to a lot more clarity about what's really going on so go and give that a thought right now.
I think the way to define the health of a relationship is whether you're growing and evolving together and if you're not growing and evolving something does need to change but the question is will an open relationship provide the change that you're looking for.
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