Should the introvert be changed?
Come on, who says s/he has to? Why not change the extrovert? They are loud, always seek attention, overruling the thinkers. They act and never know what will happen next.
Good thing I'm behind the screen. I'm an introvert and it has nothing to do with being shy it's just you loud people are too much. Call me selfish but I like being with me, my thought. Born like this? Don't ask my mom, she's one, my siblings are, and the family and friends are. We are fine with it, share, care, leave to our own space to do what we like. Wrong? Are you hurt by this behaviour? Why? Because you don't get attention? Not enough? You can look the other way but likely you knock at an introvert's door if you want to know how to solve a problem. Introverts think, are intelligent and can see the results of ideas.
Extroverts cannot. Are we all introverts or extroverts? No, no way. Most of us are something in between. If it comes to socializing many don't like it. Some say it's because of being anti-social (I am), others are too sensible for noises (I am too), too many impressions (me as well), ADHD (not me), autism (everyone seems to have a grade of it), too tired after work, too many hobbies, average meeting/party is boring (I rather stay home and do what I like, too many hobbies). Different people, different likes and lives.
The need to change someone, I wonder what the benefit is. Imagine we are all acting the same, boring, boring, boring life will be. All I can say if you try to fit in, have a hobby, or a job and grow older you change because we copy behaviour to be accepted, fit in. If we are lucky we work online and can be who we are. Liked by our brain. Sounds good to me. My job is at night. Works fine to me. No need to meet too many (complaining) people. I worked in a shop as well and interesting is that people don't see me as an introvert. Back home I'm drained. Gone is all energy. I always had that already at primary school. What I never had was someone telling me I had to change
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I love your courage. Introverts are lovely people with creative minds, no one can change them except God who made us in He's own image. Our own duties are to encourage them and share great opinion with them that will be useful and make them social in life.
Introvert personality is not bad and is not wrong to be an introvert. They are also normal and healthy personality which again energy from being alone or in small groups and they need time to recharge after social interactions. Is good to prefer solitary activities or small gathering to large social events but not all the time.
Just rest your mind and enjoy,spend your time with what is best and useful to you but don't forget to take care of yourself and accept yourself for who you are.
Good luck on this contest
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