🍀 * Children's training and we *
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We are not raising children, we are raising pets. It was strange to hear this from an educated person and it was as if we looked at him with inquiries.
That we keep pets in a good place in our house, do not enclose them with normal animals, give them good food, get a good doctor check if they get sick, while normal animals get broken first if they get sick. They are tested, and when the condition worsens, they try to call a doctor.
This is what we are doing with our children nowadays, we have good food, clothing, schooling beyond our status and sometimes after school tuition, check-up by the best doctor in case of illness and every legitimate and illegitimate wish. Fulfill the fulfillment and understand that we have done our duty, although we must provide the children with school, clothes, food according to our status, but * the real need of these children is their best training which is the duty of parents and children The right of everyone, rich and poor, can do it, then it will make the life of the child both in this world and the hereafter.
Just as it is the duty of the parents to bring up the children, it is also the duty of the parents to train the children. Not having the upbringing is as harmful as not having the training. Not only will the child suffer for the rest of his life, but society as a whole will suffer.
So where does it go that "* an orphan is one whose parents have not trained him *". The tragedy is that the parents themselves become a bad responsibility by putting the responsibility of training the child on the teacher, although the teacher can teach, but the training can only be done by the parents and it is their responsibility. Parents spend more than they can afford on education and art, but not on training, which requires hard work that is in the power of both the rich and the poor.
There is a need for parents to focus on educating their children, educating them in such a way that even if they are out of sight, the pollution of the society cannot affect them.
- You have given everything to your children but if you have not trained, you have not given anything and you are leaving orphans *