Okay, let me get straight to the topic of discussion. Do you know why God created humans with two legs to walk, two hands to hold, two ears to hear, two eyes to see, but only one heart. Because the other heart is in someone for us to look for, and find, and that's what love is.
If we talk about love and hate, both are feelings, both are two things that are actually very different, but they feel very close. Many couples who used to love, now hate each other. So then how can love last forever, and not turn into hate. I will discuss all of this in the following post, namely hate and love.
In the dictionary of the language of love, the meaning of love in this language is something that we really like, or really like. Hate is the opposite, really hate, or really dislike. Well, love arises because there is an attachment, it needs closeness. Sometimes, love also comes because of admiration. So love is liking very much, being very happy. That's why there is a poem that says,
"The moon is not always a crescent, someday it will be full too", love and sacrifice, are not always sick, someday it will end perfectly".
True love is love that is based on attachment, so there is an attachment. Many people do a love process without any attachment, suddenly they know the way. The bond I mean is an emotional bond, there are people who feel the next commitment, so there is an attachment. Then there is something called commitment, men tend to do a love relationship without saying, but women need to hear what a man says.
In the attachment process, there is a process called exploration. Well, it takes psychological closeness, that's why it's fun to walk together, eat together, have a soul mate, have similar stories, so it becomes an attachment. Then later there will be something called intimacy, or intimacy. This is the feeling of wanting to share stories, confide, even trivial things if we chat, it turns out to be really nice to hear. Well, the third is something called passion, or passion. This passion is often misunderstood in the form of love.
We must have heard the term, "Love at first sight", right? The pen fell, srettt, he got down, looked around, it turned out there were three people, the one he was holding turned out to be his male friend's hand 😁
What is talking is visual attraction, physical attraction. So it is natural that we fall in love with what is visible. So like this friends, I used to have a friend, let's call him Admin. He really liked someone, he was very much in love with her, basically he had tried everything for her. He hadn't bought snacks for a month, basically he had tried everything to get her. Well, but suddenly he was rejected. Now he is confused, how to overcome his hatred for the woman he liked earlier.
So in my opinion, this is an example of what started out as liking, then becoming love, then suddenly becoming hate. Already done the process of true love, already done the process of sacrifice, spared time, spared voice, spared thoughts thinking about him, even to the point of sparing budget, and already calculated this, sms, whatsapp in him, the cost of the package, then the Saturday night schedule.
Love is also based on sacrifice. Well, someone who is willing to sacrifice, means he has love. Not only interest, admiration, but he has entered the third level, willing to sacrifice. Well, unfortunately his sacrifice, the longer, the more, it turns out this woman only realized, it turns out after she made a sacrifice. Sometimes like this, the woman also likes to test, she tests whether the man dares to sacrifice.
So, when he wants to sacrifice, the woman has already received one test. So why does her love turn into hate?
Because earlier, as I mentioned above, the language of love is really liking, really happy. But when the person you love avoids attachment, he doesn't want to be close anymore. This is usually a very subtle way, a girl who is a bit cool, is usually very subtle. For example,
"Sir, please forgive me? Starting from now, I don't think I can call at night, people at home are a bit disturbed".
In fact, one month was not a problem. That's why the principle is, "If love is rejected, make sure your prayers act"
That's all my post today, hopefully it inspires, take what is useful, leave what you think is not useful. See you again in the next post, God willing.
Greetings always compact.
By @midiagam