There are things that are simply part of life. Crying is part of life. Laughing is part of life, too. But when sorrow becomes a routine for you every day, when heartbreak and marital disappointments become a regular pattern for you, then something must be addressed or it will never stop by itself if you don't stop it.
Life is temporary. Our stay here on earth won't be forever. There is time for everything under the sun. When it is time for you to marry, then you should marry. When it is time to have your own new home, then it should happen. If all that happens is delay and disappointment after disappointment, then you have to ask some questions because something is not right somewhere.
It may be a problem that has to do with your own world view and attitude, or something you are not paying attention to in your relationship with the opposite sex. Investigate.
It may be that you have been attracting the wrong kind of persons all the time. This is usually very frustrating for most beautiful ladies. But there is a way to reposition yourself to start attracting a different kind of persons into your life.
Now, I know that there are some mean persons who try to use some diabolical means to manipulate the marital destinies of those they hate.
That notwithstanding, no spiritual condition is permanent. Whatever was done against you in dark places can be undone by prayer and fasting, and by breaking of soul ties and any limitation standing on your way.
When life hurts, that's not the end of the story. But your unbelief and wrong attitude may keep you bound beyond the set time for your deliverance.
What is important is what you believe as a person, not what many others don't believe. Be serious minded. Life is a battle ground. Sometimes we go to war for peace. Be battle ready. Others may be less concerned, but if it is to be, it is up to you.
Be willing to learn. Be willing to embrace change. You're not meant to live in continuous state of sorrow and disappointments.