"Jane Eyre" looks like a lot of excellent biographies. Almost every outstanding character’s childhood was either impoverished or miserable. The reason why they climbed out of the abyss of suffering proves that they also have wisdom and spiritual world different from ordinary people. Jane Eyre seems to be such a person.
Maybe many people have asked like me, why does Rochester, who is rich and a little manly, fall in love with the orphan Jane Eyre?
Through the brief description in the book, we know that Jane Eyre is a short stature, ordinary appearance, no money, no status, and Rochester has her own manor, wealth, and is in the upper class. It is almost a century away from Jane Eyre, but it is Such Jane Eyre is deeply attracted to Rochester for the following reasons.
A person who can break through a bad native family must have the willpower and resilience to break through the cocoon and become a butterfly.
The birth of some people is the beginning of a tragedy. If you lose at the starting line, you have to accept the relentless fate of fate. Adults’ acceptance of suffering is hard to say, while the young Jane Eyre seems to be nailed to the pillar of suffering at birth. Last time and again.
Jane Eyre was born in a poor pastor's family. Her parents died one after another. Later, she was fostered in her uncle's house. Originally thought that the uncle who loved Jane Eyre would fill the gaps of her parents, she did not expect that bad luck would come again and her uncle died.
So Jane Eyre became a thorn in the eyes of her aunt. She forbade Jane Eyre from approaching him and isolated her from her own children. Jane Eyre lived like this for ten years. When she left her aunt’s house to go to the Lowood Orphanage, she said to her aunt the most vicious words in her heart, a pleasure like revenge. Maybe everyone who has been treated unfairly by fate has a flame of revenge in her heart. , Just waiting for the moment it ignites.
She said that she was glad that her aunt was not her relative, and would never call her aunt again in her life. I would never come to see her when I grew up, even thinking of my aunt would make me sick.
Jane Eyre, who left her aunt's house, was actually the beginning of another nightmare. The rules of the Lowood Orphanage are strict and life is hard. The children not only suffer mental damage, but also suffer physical damage, and many children die in diseases. And Jane Eyre’s only friend, Helen, who made Jane Eyre understand what love is for the first time, also died of illness.
Jane Eyre, who grew up in such an environment, not only does not have a gloomy personality, but is very tenacious. Aunt’s abuse, cousin’s contempt, cousin’s insults and beatings. Not only did she not despair, she did not sink in suffering, but a flower came out in despair.
It is this kind of character that makes her not humble or overbearing, not succumbing to fate, let alone bowing to the rich and powerful. In her eyes, Rochester was a man, and had nothing to do with the label on him.
The painful experience itself is meaningless, but it is precisely because of pain that it creates tenacious vitality, and tenacious vitality is a quality that is noble in any situation.
Facing such Jane Eyre, Rochester felt like a spring breeze, a different feeling. Rich people do not lack beautiful and elegant women, but they always lack women who treat them equally as an ordinary person.
Without reason, a person is like a picture on paper, without spirituality.
Sense and emotion, this is a compulsory course for a woman's life. Driven by emotions, when women face eachother, they are often like an animal without intelligence, being touched and attracted, forgetting the selfish selfishness that may be behind those vows.
Jane Eyre learned that he already had a wife when he entered into marriage with Rochester
, And she resolutely gave up. Rochester kept asking him, "Jane! Jane! Don't you love me anymore? Do you only value my status and my status as a wife?"
When I was young, I felt that Jane Hobbies was cruel. Now, it seems that Rochester's words are like a classic dialogue for a married man to keep his mistress. He only cares about his pain and joy, and Jane Eyre faces the reputation of "Mistress".
Roches made a promise to leave everything in front of him and take Jane Eyre to a luxurious villa on the shore of the Mediterranean Sea, in a strange environment and strangers, to start life again, and grow old together innocently.
Such an oath is very tempting, and if I change it to me, I will be tempted, but Jane Eyre refused.
*The more lonely I am, the less friends I have, and the less support I have, the more I have to respect myself. "It is a precious moral quality to be an innocent and brave person. Jane Eyre keeps her sanity under the temptation, and is loyal to herself no matter what, this is the foundation of being a human being.
It is precisely because of this that Rochester admires Jane Eyre from the bottom of his heart. He knows that he can't help but arrogate in front of her. If he wants to be together, he must be together upright and not be despised. He has won from the beginning. Respect, naturally there will be no less after marriage.
Blindly to flatter you will only make you inferior, and the selfishness of those rich people will change overnight, but if you have your unbreakable principle, he will really look at you from the bottom of your heart.
The end of the fairy tale is the beginning of marriage.
Cinderella marries Prince Charming. TV dramas always attract waves of young men and women like this, but why do they stop abruptly when they get married?
Because marriage is evenly matched, the Cinderella married to Prince Charming is not as beautiful as a fairy tale, because she has to deal with the prince’s family relations and must always stay awake and keep up with Prince Charming’s footsteps and not be eliminated.
Why did Rochester marry Jane Eyre in the end? On the one hand, Jane Eyre couldn't let him go, and on the one hand, they all knew that they were the right people for each other.
Rochester, like many young talents, yearns for a beautiful love, a close love. But in fact, God will always give a head to the beautiful fantasies.
After experiencing these devastating bad emotional experiences, what he needs is no longer external vanity, but inner stability. For Jane Eyre, Rochester gave her a sense of belonging and the warmth of home that she had never had before. After half a lifetime away, the kite string is always held at the end of the house.
It is also the experience of Jane Eyre that her firm character can withstand the hidden crises of Rochester's wealth. She is the kind of woman who can be noble in the depths with you or eat chaff with you.
After all, there are countless risks in life, and a vase is often too easy to break. Marriage cannot rely solely on love and beauty, it needs the courage to withstand the ebb and flow of the tide.
Zhou Guoping said: "Money is a good thing, but it is not the best thing. The best thing is the simplicity of life, the richness of the soul, and the nobility of personality." Those who are truly rich also fancy these things. In life, what should be cultivated most is a kind life, a rich heart, a free mind, and a noble soul.