In the story, a farmer grew pumpkins in his case. When the pumpkin was very small, Machar filled a small pumpkin in a glass jar and hung the jar from the platform. When the pumpkin was about to be picked, it was found that the other pumpkin was quite large and had different shapes, but the pumpkin kept in the glass jar had the shape of a glass jar; Couldn't grow more than that. Man also grows within the limits of his own ideas and thoughts. Can't get out of it.
Some of the advantages of high self-esteem are a direct link between human thinking and its productivity. Those who respect themselves and others, respect their parents, laws and wealth and love their country deserve better self-esteem. The opposite is equally true.
Self-esteem:
Strengthens faith. Willing to take responsibility.
Builds an optimistic attitude.
Helps to create better relationships with people and lead a fulfilling life. Easily understands the needs of others, shows a caring attitude towards them.
Gets constant motivation from within itself and makes people ambitious. Creates the mentality of taking new opportunities and facing difficult tests. The quality of work improves and the ability to take risks increases. Helps people to face criticism and receive congratulations with tactful ease.
How to identify low self-esteem? What do such people use? This is not a complete list - just a few characteristic points. These are usually rumored.
Criticism is strong. Criticizes with such intensity that he is expecting the prize of the winner in a fierce competition.
★ They are emotionally limited and self-centered.
★ They always try to cover up the failure by making excuses.
★ Never take responsibility and blame others all the time. They have more ego, they are quotes and omniscient. It is difficult to work with people with low self-esteem. They tear each other apart to show their superiority.
★ They are destinyists — believe that without initiative everything will happen by itself. Their nature is malicious.
They are unable to accept any positive criticism. At the same time engaged in self-defense. When they are alone, they also feel uncomfortable with a boredom. If there is no sense of self-respect, the sense of decency is also lost. They do not know the difference between decent use and rude use. It is often the case that the more a person drinks alcohol in a social gathering, the more their talk and jokes become dirty and obscene.
They have no genuine friends because they are not genuine in their use. Promises knowing they can't keep up. To increase sales, many vendors promise to bring the moon in hand. But if the promise is not kept, the credibility is lost. A person with a high self-esteem maintains credibility even when admitting loss in business, because credibility is invaluable. Their use is irrational and whimsical. Their motion is like the pendulum of a clock swinging from one end to the other. If you use honey today,
Tomorrow he was about to cut his throat. They have no mental balance.
★ They make fun of everyone, so loneliness is their companion. They are naturally arrogant, that is, they have a fragile ego. The slightest word hurts their ego, and they become disgusted with everything. What is the difference between being overly arrogant and sensitive? Pride is filled with thorns like cactus. If you touch it, you will be hit by a thorn. Sensitivity is a positive attitude, which leads to empathy. But many times he is very arrogant Sensitivity is used synonymously. Many say, "Be careful when talking to him, he is very sensitive." But what he wants to say is, the man is over-arrogant. These arrogant people have negative expectations about themselves and others, their hopes are always subject to the approval and recognition of others. Many times a person also discusses to take a disagreement on a subject.
People without self-confidence do not try to get other opinions. Be arrogant about your actions, and that means hole. Lack of confidence. 3 / They are timid. Always with an apologetic attitude. As a result of such supplications, they bring themselves down so low that the condition can never be called humility. Humility comes from self-confidence, but self-deprecation is a lack of self-confidence. Lack of ability to express oneself firmly.
People with dream self-esteem also hesitate to publicly support their beliefs. Again, when it becomes overly aggressive for a small reason, it is characterized by a lack of self-esteem. Where empathy is needed, he cannot be considered firm in faith if he is aggressive.
Lack of self-confidence leads to a tendency to compromise. He calms his mind by saying, "When everyone is doing it, why shouldn't I do it?" It is often seen that many bow to the pressure of the superiors, even though they know that the results will not be good. Do it anyway, because then the superior will be at your mercy. People with very low self-esteem adapt in this way. They get outside support because they don't believe in themselves.
Pretending to belong to a group with the upper class of the society is also a sign of lack of self-esteem. Then the money they spend may not be their own earnings, they buy things they don't need so they try to influence people who don't like them.
Bizarre use of attention. People who lack self-esteem can do meaningless things for the sake of reading. They find pleasure in such perversions and think of themselves as some. Many people deliberately make mistakes in order to make a difference and to be noticed. Such people boast excessively in their work, or are equally hypocritical. * They are hesitant people and reluctant to take responsibility. Lack of courage and
They may sometimes rebel against authority; But for fear of their own strong criticism, they are always swayed. It is necessary to distinguish between the rebellion that results from being steadfast in the faith and the rebellion that results from a lack of self-esteem. World leaders like Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King and Abraham Lincoln also revolted.
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