How Do You Settle Dispute In Your Family? 10% payout to @steemit-family by @desiredlady

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Introduction

Hi great people of @steemit-family, i am @desiredlady, I'm glad to join this contest organized by @peachyladiva in this community.

Family

A family is a place were you fall back to when trouble, my family lives a happy and simple life, we respect each other and shared our plans together and work towards achieving our goal, my family values unity and love that is what has been keeping the family going.

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What causes disputes in a family

There is no family without dispute but the ability to say sorry and stop that particular act is what keeps the family together in Unity.

  • One of causes is differences in character
    My husband is a gentle and a calm person, he doesn't like noise but you see am not that type, when am playing with my son he is not comfortable because of the noise, before you know dispute has set in.

Secondly am an extrovert while my husband is an introvert when ever he comes up with a discussion that needed my contribution trust extrovert people I will talk and talk even him that brought the topic has not said anything yet, before you know, it has cause dispute but it doesn't change the fact that we are still husband and wife.

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How my family dispute is settled

we apologize to each other and then try to forgive and live like nothing happen.

Secondly we learned to accept each other the way we are, when am talking he listens to the nonsense while I reduced how I talked drastically, we just have to understand the individual difference and over look some things.

How we relate to each other after a dispute

Even though most are times we don't find it funny to let go but we strive to learn how to let go course even God do forgive, so we have no excuse not to let go, by doing that, the love, unity and the respect we had for each other continue normally as though nothing happens.

Thanks for your time.

I will like to invite
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@joyvictory
@niglys

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Best regards
@desiredlady

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Nice write up and nice post. Family is a great place to be.

Thank you.

Understanding the differences in temperament helps us to handle disputes amicably in our family!
Thanks @desiredlady

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we apologize to each other and then try to forgive and live like nothing happen.

I love your statement "we apologise to each other. You know the word sorry is very small but difficult to come out from some peoples mouth. Another thing that causes dispute in a family is claiming to be right all time.

The 2 short word "I'm sorry" have a wonderful powerful effect, but how sad that some find it so hard to utter it out. Thanks for sharing your experience with us here.

Thank you for participating in this contest.