How disputes in our family are resolved - post by @greatketty; 10% for @steemit-family

Hello friends! Thank @peachyladiva for the wonderful competition on an important family theme.

Our family consists of four people: me, my husband and two children. The eldest daughter is 10 years old and she is in the fourth grade, the youngest son is 8 months old. And he, unlike his daughter, almost always obeys me :)

It seems to me that we practically do not quarrel. Perhaps my husband thinks differently, but this is my point of view. I do not take into account minor differences. As is often said, truth is born in an argument.

Nevertheless, we often have disagreements about household chores and the eldest daughter's homework. Sometimes I don't have the patience to explain math multiple times. I mentally ask myself the question: "What am I doing wrong? I explained it as clearly as possible!"

I wish everyone a pleasant atmosphere in the family!

It is customary in our family to apologize, even an adult, realizing a mistake, can apologize to a child. Adults can also be wrong, for example, when they shout too loudly.

After disagreements, we reconcile and hug tightly. One of the main rules of our family: always put up quickly and not take offense at each other for a long time. In any case, we are a family, we must find a compromise and try to understand each other.

The best thing, of course, is not to quarrel at all. Sometimes, when I feel that I will soon swear loudly, I say so: "So! Soon I will swear!" or "Do you want me to start cursing?"
This usually helps and relieves the tension in the conversation. Very often I also say to everyone: "Let's appreciate the peace and tranquility in the family. We are all people, we can often get tired, but appreciate a good family environment." You can't hide a grudge in your soul, you always need to talk and find a common language.

I invite you to take part in the competition @knopka145, @alena-vladi and @filinpaul and share ways of family reconciliation.

The terms of the competition are here: https://steemit.com/hive-153018/@peachyladiva/contest-1-tell-us-how-you-settle-dispute-in-your-family