Is it ok for a lady to confess feelings first?

in hive-153264 •  3 years ago  (edited)

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Thank God the world is changing gradually and moving away from the ideology of who need to confess feelings first.
These days there have been cases of girls making the first move on the guy they love,but do you think it is really normal and right for a lady to confess first?
does it kill her pride??
don't you think it makes such a lady look cheap??

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I strongly feel it's awkward for a lady to make advances at a guy. It backfires most times. Am talking from experience.

Men naturally are chasers, they love to hunt for their food if I should put it like that. When the table turns round sometimes, it puts some of them off. While some will simply see you as cheap.

I have lots of male friends and that's their opinion. They don't like it when ladies make the first move. And as a lady, it makes one feel cheap as if you are throwing yourself on a man. Then Some men who are not matured enough treat the women as if they are second class citizens because after all you were the first to make a move.

So I'd just advice any woman to pls retain your honour. Admire from afar. If the man like you, he should be bold enough to let you know he wants you. The bible left the finding to men after all. He that findeth not she that findeth.

Hmmm,true talk💯
@alexanderpeace

For me, its ok. in a not so creepy type of way. I mean, you don't just approach a guy in public and tell him- while a lot of people are within earshot that you like him.

Go to place where you guys have privacy and talk.

But don't you think the guy will not value such a lady.. and the relationship won't last because it wasn't even the guy's idea from the start