"Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W2: "Easy Come, Easy Go".25/04/2023.

Am greeting all steemians in this community, my name is @annabelle02 this is my first time to post in this community and am very excited to be part of this challenge which says "easy come, easy go" it's a very funny topic but also educative.

I have five subtitles to answer.

What do you understand about Easy Come, Easy Go?

As the name implies, it means anything someone acquire without making any effort or without stressing he/her self can be left without regret or abandon.

Have you ever experienced a condition in life like that ? Share your experience if you have any.

Yes,have had such experience many times in my life. Firstly when my phone was stolen in my working place which I felt very bad and always anoyed.

my anoyed face.

so one of a male colleague notice the bitterness in me and decided to help me get another phone, I was very happy and expecting that day I will have my new phone. It took 3days and he present a phone to me which supprise me.

my new phone

After that I thank him and insert my SIM card then start making use of it. But unfortunately after 2months of using the phone one day it felt off from my hand into a bucket of water I was carrying to bath at night, and the phone got spoil though it pain me but not as much as the other phone because I didn't stress myself to buy it and also the quality of my other phone was far better to this one. So it was easy come, easy go.

Secondly, it was money, on a very good day I was cashless and thinking on how to do unfortunately my phone made a sound which I checked it was a text message, opening the message I saw a credit alert of five thousand I jump up and rejoice then plan how to spent the money, but after all the preparation before 30munites another alert enter my phone when I check it was a debit alert which means the money has vanish. It was easy come, easy go money.

** How did you deal with the instant success that disappears in a short time**?

Just as it is said something what you didn't struggle to get doesn't belong to you, It didn't disturb me but instead I put more effort work hard and get mine. Though it may not be easy but you can't hold tied what doesn't belong to you.

What lesson can be drawn from this expression?

Just as the name implies, easy come, easy go, so if anything we didn't expect comes our way let us know that it may not be permanent.so we need not to depend on such things. Rather work hard to get our own.

What if you associate the statement above with a romantic relationship If you have any, could you describe it?

He may look young but of age.

I was once in a relationship with an elderly man, initially I was wondering why will this man ask me for a relationship who is old enough to be my father, but later on I noticed he just wanted to help me with his reasons: "saying I resemble his daughter, I am self-discipline, am a gentle lady and also intelligent". On a long way going I appreciate all he have been doing to me, taking care of me, I wasn't lacking anything because he provides for me. We became good friend just like a father and a daughter, until after 5days I didn't see his calls niether his text messages, so I decided to go and check on him in his house because I have been calling but his phone was always off, getting there they said the man was sick and they took him abroad for proper treatment. I was very sad with my reasons: I never knew he was sick, I miss the care and support he was rendering to me, and I don't know where and when to ever meet him again. One-day when I was meditating on everything the man did to me I finally conclude that as it is always say "Easy come, Easy go".
Thanks everyone for reading and happy to say sometimes in life things are easy come, easy go.

I invite @mile16, @jyoti-thelight, @josevas217 to come join in this interesting challenge.

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