"The Most Adventurous Thing I Have Ever Done"

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Today I read a contest post on the theme that reminded me of one thing, and I tried to tell about this as a form of participation, best regards to you @goodybest.

In life, of course, there are many things that we face and go through, from unexpected things or things that we have planned before. All have stories and become memories that are not forgotten, or we may want to forget. It could also be that the events we experience have their challenges so that it is something different and unique enough for us.

Speaking of the most challenging thing we've ever done, this story has probably been experienced by some people who have done this before. So even I who once did this myself, motivated by the incredible love that I had at that time have survived until now.

Let's get started.
The event happened 13 years ago, I forgot what date and day it was, which happened at night in the middle of 2011. It tells the true story of me as a grown man who is in love with a girl and has gained the approval of both men, and I seem to have to take the last step to make it happen.

After almost 4 years of dating with limited time, because each of us was busy with education, we finally agreed to continue this love story to the level of marriage. I was challenged by my girlfriend at the time to come and see her parents, the goal was to ask for my blessing as well as Propose To My Girl in front of her parents.

Spontaneously my blood flowed quickly, my heart was beating violently. It's been a challenge that has pushed me to do it without having to think about what comes after.

I also agreed to the request, especially since I was ready enough to be able to step into a more serious and responsible level. As a result, what you think happened and what I did, was the most challenging event in life.

A few weeks later my big family came to propose, that night I ventured to visit to talk about my seriousness to propose to my idol girl. Alone, just to talk about something else.

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Excited but a little nervous I ventured to start a conversation, it was the first time I was in a really serious situation to talk about the future and it was the most challenging so far.

With what I had in stock to propose, I struck up a conversation with my intentions and goals that night. If this works, then my big family will come and start everything officially between the families. The nervousness was getting higher as I waited for the answer to my request to my mertu candidate at that time, waiting for the answer was something that made me even more nervous.

But what is expected can find an answer Well, polite words of wisdom come out of his mouth. My request to propose to his son was answered with hope, he gave his blessing and it seems that I also managed to pass the challenge I did that night.

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I also managed to convince future in-laws to propose to their daughters, and that experience is now something I remember as the biggest challenge I've ever faced. Now I live a grateful and happy life with my wife, currently we are also blessed with 5 children consisting of 2 daughters and 3 sons.

Maybe this is one of the many challenging experiences that I have experienced and I try to overcome it, success is something that is expected, although not infrequently I also do not succeed in passing the challenge.

I invited @lil.albab, @muhammadbakri, and also @dannyben39 to participate, best regards to all of you.

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