Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W1: Dream Couple

Hi Steemians, I'm very happy to be participating in the first week of Season 9 of the Steemit Engagement Challenge. Today I am here to participate in a contest organised by STEEM FOR BETTERLIFE, and the topic is "Dream Couple."

Is your current partner your choice and ideal partner? How did you struggle to get it? Tell us about your heroic struggle.

As a Muslim, I believe that when a man is born, Allah pairs him with a woman. Sometimes we see that a boy and a girl are not able to get together even after being in a relationship for many years, and they get married at separate places. Because they are not in each other's destiny and Allah Almighty has written their destiny somewhere else, and that is why they get married to someone else.

If I talk about myself, I have been not in a relationship with anyone now, nor have I ever been in a relationship with anyone. In our area, marriage by the parents' will is more preferred, which is why my parents have not thought about marrying me yet. They want me to complete my education well first, and then they will think about my marriage. And I still have one year left to complete my studies.

I don't know what my partner will be like, but I am sure that whatever girl my parents choose for me will be good and virtuous, and I hope that we will both take very good care of each other and support each other in every difficulty of life. And so far I haven't liked a girl myself, but I hope that if I do like a girl, my parents will definitely agree with me. May Allah give me a true and ideal partner.

What are the obstacles you faced when you wanted to get married, or why haven't you gotten married yet?

As I have already told you above, right now I am doing my studies, and I will do marriage after my studies. Also, I am not that old yet, so if I get married now, it may be difficult for me to follow the marriage responsibility and study along with it, but as soon as I complete my studies, I plan to get married immediately.

There is a time for everything, so I think that the time that is going on is not the time for me to get married. Also, I'm not married yet because relationships these days are more fake than real because nowadays people use you for their personal gain and then leave you and get married somewhere else.

which is a very stupid act and can have a profound effect on one's life, and I have seen these things with my own eyes, which is why I don't get into relationships with fake people. But I hope that my parents will find a very good partner for me in the future if I can't, and God will bless us because of my parents' prayers.

What are the criteria for your ideal partner?

In the vicissitudes of life, people have good and bad moments, but I think an ideal partner is someone who stands by you in every difficulty and trouble. That's why my first criteria is that my partner is supportive and stands with me in every difficulty.

Also, my criteria is that my partner should be virtuous, a five-time worshipper of God, know how to develop children well, and be literate because nowadays it is important to be literate. Also, she should take good care of my parents.

Food is a very important need, and without it we cannot live. That's why my criteria is that she could cook well so that I can enjoy the food from her hand. In short, she should be a good cook and know about 4 to 5 dishes. So this will be the criteria for my ideal partner.

Do you prioritize beauty or comfort in communication? Why?

I prize comfort in communication more than beauty, because beauty is not everything. For life partners, comfort in communication is a very beneficial thing, and it can make your marriage very successful. Because when a person acquires something, he forgets the value of that thing, which means beauty is nothing for him after marriage, so I will prefer comfort in communication for two partners.

What is your measure of happiness when you get married?

It is obvious that a person's new marriage is a matter of great happiness, and when a person gets a new marriage, everything is new for him, and these are very happy moments that are spent happily.

But one thing is for sure: these moments are even more happy for those who marry by choice because they have made a lot of plans before marriage. According to my thoughts, I think love marriage has its own fun.

On the other hand, the marriage with consent of the parents takes a little time for both partners to understand each other. As it begins a new life, I think it has no measure of happiness, because happiness is countless at those moments.

What do you think about early marriage or older marriage?

Our religion, Islam, says that marriage should be done at an early age, and I myself agree that marriage should be done at a young age because it is very useful. Because by marrying early, a man can spend more time with his wife and children, and he can take care of his children very well in their youth. On the other hand, one cannot achieve marriage goals in old age as he can in youth. So I prefer early marriage to old-age marriage.