Humans are created in pairs to live life in this world, we always need a loyal partner to make our life a beautiful life, we will only be happy to live this life if we have our dream partner
Is your current partner your choice and ideal partner? How did you struggle to get it? Tell us about your heroic struggle.
Currently I am not married because I just graduated from college, but now I have a woman as a girlfriend and partner in my life. He was the ideal partner for me because he could understand all the situations I was in and he could give me the kind of warm attention I wanted.
We met about 2 years ago when I was still studying in semester 8 and when I was assigned to do an internship at a government office located in Bireun. Coincidentally, my girlfriend is also an intern student assigned to the same office as me but we study at different campuses.
At first I didn't dare to approach her because she was the most beautiful woman out of all her other friends, because I felt self-conscious that she definitely wouldn't like me, so I decided not to pursue her because in my mind she would definitely reject my love later.
When a match is made, various miracles appear that I never even thought about, on the last day of our internship at the office, after parting with a big heart, I immediately took my motorbike in the parking lot to go home with love that has never been expressed to a beautiful woman. that Ayu.
When I was about to go home and get my motorbike out of the parking lot, we suddenly met for the last time by looking at each other, full of nervousness and trembling, I finally decided to talk to him for a while.
Seeing that he responded well to every word I said and our conversation was well connected I also felt that he was comfortable chatting with me, that's when I decided to ask for his WhatsApp number and he immediately gave it to me.
Since then we chatted, chatted, telephoned and even often made Vidio Calls, and after a month had passed we felt comfortable with each other. I finally decided to confess my love to him when we met at a cafe and he accepted my love, from then on we started dating until now.
What are the obstacles you face when you want to get married, or why haven't you gotten married yet?
Currently my partner and I are not married, but for a young man like me it feels like there are a lot of obstacles that prevent me from being able to marry my partner, economic factors may be the main reason.
Currently I'm still working under my parents' business and I'm still learning to build my own business, I don't want to marry with a half-measures economy because the negative effects will be even more impactful after we get married later.
Another factor is that right now I feel that I am not mentally strong enough to build my own household, right now I am still learning and will continue to learn how to manage and build a good household so that I can be a good husband as well as a responsible head of the family. my partner. When I think I have completed these two factors, I will immediately marry the woman who is now my soul mate.
What are the criteria for your ideal partner?
The criteria that I want from my life partner is that I want a woman who understands my character, is not selfish, is kind, has noble character and is responsible for her family. And I have found that woman and have become my current lover.
Do you prioritize beauty or comfort in communication? why?
Beautiful of course, but what makes me feel lucky to have this special woman as my lover is because everything we talk about is connected so well and I feel very comfortable communicating with her. He always has a solution for every problem I'm having. And every solution he gave was in accordance with my character's intent and criteria.
What is your measure of happiness when you get married?
The measure of my happiness after marriage is when I can give happiness to my children, wife, parents and in-laws, I will put my happiness above theirs.
What do you think about early marriage or older marriage?
In my opinion both are good as long as both partners are ready economically and mentally, because for me marriage is not a matter of age but a matter of readiness in terms of the economy and mentality. Sometimes early marriages run smoother than older marriages because they are ready economically and mentally, and vice versa.
If someone gets married and only prepares a good economy for their household but does not prepare a strong mentality to manage and build their household, I see many rich people who get divorced simply because they do not strengthen their mentality from various situations after marriage.
But don't get me wrong, a lack of economy will also make your household not last long, so if a couple has mentally and economically prepared to get married, it's okay for me to want to get married at any time, whether it's an easy marriage or an old marriage.
This is my post for this week's Steemit Engagement Challenge contest, I also want to invite @simonnwigwe, @abdullahw2, @msharif and @solayman to join this contest too.
my introductory post
https://steemit.com/hive-172186/@rial01/introduce-my-self