Contest | 25-Word Comment - Monkey Business | Cheating - 6 Steem

shahid76 (70) · 2 months ago (edited)

Hello deer friends,
How are you all?
As we progress towards the development of civilization, improving in terms of education, and the development of humanity, the number of cheaters is increasing. As we look around us, we see many cheaters walking around in the guise of decent people. They think as if they belong to us.

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Their expressions seem like they are disturbed by our thoughts. Actually, this is a technique of Chiter. They come to ordinary people like us by pretending to be kind and good people, thinking to belong with us and They cheat by chance. They have no sense of humanity. They are very selfish. These cheaters are enemies of the society and the country. We all should be careful of these cheaters. It is also our duty to warn other people.
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5 votes

deelyt (54) · 2 months ago

It is so true that the (cheaters) can rip you off even to the last dime and go around without an atom fear

bahrol (68) · 2 months ago

Sebelum itu terjadi pada diri kita, sebaiknya kita juga harus hati-hati dan waspada terhadap orang yang tidak kita kenal. Untuk siapa pun, seperti butuh ilmu untuk mengenali gerak gerik penipu juga, harus bisa sama-sama licik.

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shahid76 (70) · 2 months ago

@bahrol,
I agree with you bro, we need to be careful before we get cheated by cheaters. We need to try to understand the mind movements of those we associate with. Also we need to be more restrained. In this way we can be somewhat safe from being cheated by fraudsters.

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bahrol (68) · 2 months ago

Ya benar sekali, kejahatan itu terjadi saat ada kesempatan, maka kita juga harus lebih waspada juga. Kita selalu dikelilingi oleh mereka para penipu.

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shahid76 (70) · 2 months ago

@bahrol,
You are right, cheaters are sitting all around us. But truth always wins. Cheaters are criminals no matter how close they are to us. They can't walk with courage like us. Because they have the burden of the innocent in their mind. So I believe that honesty will help us stop the cheaters.

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bahrol (68) · 2 months ago

Walaupun kebenaran akan menang, tetapi paling utama adalah waspada, sebelum sesuatu yang tidak diinginkan terjadi.

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shahid76 (70) · 2 months ago

@bahrol,
100% true, there is no substitute for caution. We need to be on the lookout every moment, so that flatterers and cheaters do not cause any untoward incident with us. Avoid their company if necessary.

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steemcurator07 (54) · 2 months ago

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shahid76 (70) · 2 months ago

@damithudaya sir,
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wakeupkitty (75) · 2 months ago

Isn't it strange how cheating is not always seen as something bad? If I think about it it's also rewarding because the cheater reaches the top faster than those who stick to the rules. What to think about magicians? The cheat to.. trick the mind. And what about the "white lies"?

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shahid76 (70) · 2 months ago

@wakeupkitty, hello sir, how are you?
Your point is also true that we don't always look at cheaters in a bad light. In my view, some people resort to cheating because of the situation. Some people cheat out of habit. Here I am not willing to hate those who cheat because of the situation. Rather, how to solve that situation. He can be brought on the right way. I am in favor of that effort.
No matter how quickly you get to the top of success by cheating, it is only a short-term success. With this success, he cannot make his family and society proud. Instead, he has to hide the success achieved through his deception. So I don't want to insult success by calling it success.

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deelyt (54) · 2 months ago

@wakeupkitty You will hear them say After all " Na lie I lie, I no kill person" it is saddening that one feels its okay to cheat as far as someone is not dead, The forget that dead could be emotionally too

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fexodine (45) · 2 months ago

Let's deal with it. We have heard about cheating, and probably being a victim of it in one way or the other. Cheating is like a cancer that has eaten deeper into the fabric of the society. Be it in schools, office or at home, there are always some people who take cheating as a habit and this can be very hurtful at times. For example, cheating in a relationship can leave individuals traumatized and depressed. Whether some people are able to get away with it or not, cheating is bad and should be discouraged by all means.

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4 votes

olivia08 (69) · 2 months ago

Its true , I don't like cheating . Even if they give me million, I won't deal with it.

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

It is good to see you and thanks for joining the comment contests. There are more you can join and if you comment on others you will meet not only people but also find other contests and fun places to join.

If it comes to cheating.. it's true we all can be a victim sooner or later. A part of us will try to ignore it as long as possible.
I wonder why if most of us get out heartbroken and depressed we do cheat on on others as well?

A great weekend to you!

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jiva34 (64) · 2 months ago (edited)

Cheaters and the cheated. Something for nothing has its appeal. If it's too good to be true, it probably is too good to be true. The lessons start young. "Don't take candy from strangers."

There are those who get a thrill from cheating others. From hacking bank accounts. Passing phony checks, seducing someone else's partner. They are in government, in education, in science, in industry. Practically speaking they're everywhere.

But there are also those with integrity. They are easy to spot. They're open in their dealings, truthful. No gimmicks. They play by the rules. Those are the ones I want to be around.

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4 votes

bluelavender (52) · 2 months ago

There's some sort of corruption everywhere. Almost everybody engages in it. It's the easy life syndrome. Driven by the urge to have it all and do nothing.

bahrol (68) · 2 months ago

Ini sangat harus di waspadai, apalagi bila permen yang sudah ada obat biusnya bisa ludes semua barang yang ada pada diri kita ini.

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

The candy?

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bahrol (68) · 2 months ago

Ia permen. Di tempat saya ini untuk melakukan aksi penculikan dan pembiusan bisa dilakukan dengan permen, permen ini dikasih untuk anak-anak, disinilah kejahatan terjadi.

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

So children are lured with candies not with balloons, asked to have a look at the newborn rabbits or kittens or just pulled into a car or come along out of free will?

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bahrol (68) · 2 months ago

Kalau di kota ya seperti itu. Di desa saya di kasih permen, lalu di tarik ke mobil dan ke motor mereka.

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

Itu adalah pengalaman yang mengerikan. Anda tidak pernah menerima permen? Sebagai seorang anak kami diberitahu untuk tidak menerima permen dari pria asing, hari ini orang-orang yang aneh karena wanita membantu pria juga ditambah lagi tidak ada anak kecil yang meminta permen. Mereka meminta kartu debit anak-anak!

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

I tend to say that if you like to make an income you have to cheat. We can give it a different name but profit is cheating so are the present high prices asked for groceries, gasoline, power and you name it (the health insurance make a great example.. fat bank accounts but the never pay out except their guys at the top - golden handshake included).

The ole pean n' shell game.. it's more like a trick of the mind just like a magician.. he doesn't trick us but we trick our own mind.

My father was a cheater, playing a board game with him was terrible. He couldn't stand losing to a child (my daughter beat him with chess) and he always cheated as we played Ludo..his youngest brother did as he said he would teach me how to play Monopoly. I still don't like the game although I have a great version of "The Nightmare Before Christmas" (Tim Burton).

A great entry, thanks for sharing the video.. let's see what I can find..

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olivia08 (69) · 2 months ago

I learned and your words made me think for better.

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bluelavender (52) · 2 months ago (edited)

Cheating has become the norm in many places around me. They all know the consequences of cheating but because they know they can easily get away with it, they engage in it all the time. Nothing good comes easy.

The teachers who encourage students to cheat do so, so that they can be liked by their students and collect gifts from them. They may feel helpful but they're not really helping the lives of these students.

When these students graduate, they enter professions they know nothing about. They end up struggling in those jobs and aren't really helpful and useful to their communities.

An example is a friend of mine who didn't really enjoy reading. She thought studying was a chore and so spent more time doing more enjoyable things. When it was time for exams, she would be so relaxed because she could pay people to do her exams. The lecturers were also settled, so that she'll get good grades and please her parents.

Did it do her any good in the end? No.

She ended up getting jobs at big organisations fortunately. But she couldn't cope because she couldn't prove she could do all the things listed in her CV. She wasted many years looking for new jobs, entering them and not knowing what to do. She would often get frustrated with herself and everything.

She realised her mistake and eventually changed jobs. She's taking each step one by one. Reminding herself, that it's difficult but not impossible. She's growing everyday now, realising that there's no easy route to achieve anything.

You know, cheating is not the main problem. It's the common drive to have it all and not sacrifice anything. To have an easy life without doing the necessary work.

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

How can one be relaxed if the only way to pass is to count on someone else? That would make me nervous because if you have to bribe or pay someone else you know they will always ask me, you can be blackmailed and for sure they won't keep their mouth shut.

Those teachers I don't understand but I saw them as easy to buy with a few apples or a cake, also many who always were absent and misbehaved did pass just because the teachers wanted to get rid of them. On the other hand there never was any mercy for those who really studied hard. I lie if I say I ever met a teacher after I left primary school dedicated to the job and willing to teach a child.

The downside of this system and the fact cheating is the norm this also means those few left and being honest will have less chance. It's proven that those who brag get the best jobs and not those being honest. The message sent is definitely that if you cheat you will make it. If that weren't the case cheating would have stopped a long time ago but it is what politicians and high-ranked businesses men do.. Bill Gates, you name it.
Thanks for sharing your story, I hope the one you talk about is motivated enough to work for her future.
A great weekend to you.

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sojib1996 (64) · 2 months ago (edited)

How are you all? I hope everyone is well. Alhamdulillah I am fine too. Today I will be taking part in a beautiful comment contest of the steem for Betterlife community. Thank you @wakeupkitty.pal for organizing such a beautiful even.

Hearing about cheating reminds me of some incidents in my own life. I have been the victim of many scams. My very close friend cheated me a lot of money. I trusted him a lot and gave him money to do business, but he did not respect my trust and took my money and left the city. I saved this money little by little every month. I was very broken because a close friend cheated me with a lot of hard money. Now I am moving more freely than before. But the betrayal of this close friend still shakes my conscience.

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shahid76 (70) · 2 months ago (edited)

@sojib1996,
I am not very surprised to see that you have confessed to many big frauds in your life. You may be surprised by my words. But this is the reality. There are many people walking around wearing the mask of politeness in our society. They are cheaters.
Brother @Sojib1996, I request you to be more aware. But I will not ask you to distrust anyone. You must trust people, but before that, you should do a lot of verification. I hope that you will not fall for such cheaters in the future.

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wakeupkitty (75) · 2 months ago

it is hard to trust if family and best friends backstab and don't care about how you feel, if you manage and worse of al you see them live a luxury life.

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shahid76 (70) · 2 months ago

@wakeupkitty sir. how are you?

Everyone in the society does not live under the same label. Some live in the upper class and some in the lower class. It is a part of our society. One is enjoying all kinds of privileges and I am deprived and living a poor life. But I will say that we have a lot of learning from here.
There is also the material to increase self-confidence. From here it will be known whether I have the habit of cheating. If I can control myself even after seeing such situations, I can take the next incident easily then I am real. I can change as a person. And if I am affected by greed like a cheater, then I need to understand that I need correction.
So I would say that understanding Sattika's attitude and society's high and low situations is needed.

wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

You made some good points.

If not interested in material, success or whatever is offered and seen by society (due to commercials?) as a need doesn't lack self-confidence and lives a more (worry) free life.

For sure plenty change. We do if we grow older and no longer see what ithers long for as a personal achievement. The questions is how to correct those who cheat (out of greed and otherwise) especially if you live under a different label.

#wewrite & #comment. Did you start already? @shahid76

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shahid76 (70) · 2 months ago (edited)

Hellow, @wakeupkitty.pal,how are you?
Cheating seems to have become the norm these days. The situation is such that when we hear that someone has cheated, we are not surprised, rather it seems to be a normal issue.
We can solve this tendency to cheat by taking some steps. One of them is love. In my opinion, love is a power that makes the impossible possible.
Yes, I have already started my work little by little.

#wewrite #comment

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

I learned that love, being kind, even mention you know someone cheats on does not work. The cheater is rarely smart enough to chsnge since it pays. Also if you are once cheated by someone and acceot that you start attracting mainly abusive people because they knkw you are an idiot and it is easy to lie in your face, manipulate you in the name of love or make you feel pity.

As ahuman you also have the plight to correct and educate. If we do so with our children why not with adults who misbehave? If you look away with them there's no need for norms and values or raise, drill children or?

I am fine, thanks for asking. Are you into art?

#wewrite & #comment

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shahid76 (70) · 2 months ago

Thank you so much for your valuable feedback.I still believe cheaters can be brought back to the right path through love. Although a few days ago I fell for a cheater and I lost quite a bit of money. He was a close friend of mine. But I still don't hate him but I pity him.
Thank you very much for asking me. I do a small job. Not involved in any art. But I like art. So sometimes I do amateur art with my children. Which is funny to me.

#wewrite & #comment

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bahrol (68) · 2 months ago

Semoga kejadian beliau ini menjadi berkah, serta pelajaran yang berharga kedepan nanti.

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wakeupkitty (75) · 2 months ago

Here we can shake hands it happened to me twice. First my ex (a good reason to dump a guy as soon as possible) and next a friend. Always "great" to have friends backstabbing and draining you. After all those years I am still mad if I think of it. The worst of all is that both lived freely and left me with a financial mess and didn't care for a second how I would survive with my children.
Will I forgive? Never and I admit if I had had a shotgun I would have shot them years ago.
Do I believe justice will deal with them? No. They are rewarded for their behaviour and the banks I informed in time all lied and let me pay for their mistakes.

If it comes to the experience above I tell you (and myself) never, ever give money to a friend or family no matter how hard they beg or try to manipulate you.

I wish you strength and hope fake friends will never show up in front of my car.

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bahrol (68) · 2 months ago

Untuk itu, kita juga tidak bisa mempercai sembarangan orang. Padahal kita berniat untuk membantunya, tapi setega itu dia terhadap diri kita ini yang ikhlas membantunya. Semoga kedepan kebaikan dan keinsafan akan menghampirinya.

Semoga anda mendapatkan kesuksesan selalu, dan juga selalu mau membantu orang lain yang membutuhkan bantuan.

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bahrol (68) · 2 months ago

Kecurangan boleh dikatakan suatu perbuatan yang sangat dibenci, bahkan dilarang dalam Agama karena merusak nilai-nilai moral dan etika.

Kecurangan adalah suatu tindakan ataupun perbuatan yang dapat menguntung 1 pihak serta merugikan pihak lain. Kecurangan ini bisa terjadi dimana dalam kehidupan ini, serta dapat dilakukan oleh seseorang maupun sebuah kelompok manusia.

Artinya perbuatan ini dilakukan secara tidak sah dengan unsur kesengajaan, untuk mendapatkan sesuatu keinginannya dengan cara paksaan ataupun tidak adil demi keuntungannya.

Kecurangan ini terjadi disaat ada kesempatan, maka bagi kita juga harus waspada dan berhati-hati terhadap orang yang mempunyai niat yang jahat, baik itu dalam suatu kasus, tempat kerja dan bahkan dalam lingkungan masyarakat disekitar kita.

Kecurangan ini sangat berdampak buruk bagi kehidupan, baik secara moril, reputasi dan dampak negatif.

Kecurangan ini sebenarnya juga dapat dicegah dengan membangun kepercayaan antar sesama dalam suatu organisasi dan lingkungan, dan mencegah terjadinya prasangka dan pertikaian dalam pemikiran yang akan diambil suatu keputusan.

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

If it comes to fraud there will always be the intention to harm someone. A scammer will not think about how his victim will feel . He or she will also not ask what if this happens to me, how would I react, feel, what would I do, who can I turn to?

I am not sure if we can avoid being cheated on. It turns out that those who cheated most on us are family and the partner. That should make us think because these are the people we automatically believe and trust most. So if we want to save ourselves from harm we are better off to trust a stranger than family. This sounds very sad to me. If you can't trust them, who can you trust? If you are harmed that badly how to gain trust back?

Thank you for your answer. I wish you a great weekend. Don't forget to smile.

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bahrol (68) · 2 months ago

Terimakasih atas kunjungan anda dan memberi komentarnya. Sebenarnya kita ini mempercayai keluarga sendiri, namun sebelum kepercayaan ini hilang lebih baik dia jangan melakukan pengkhianatan. Sekali melakukannya maka kepercayaan akan sirna.

Tersenyum juga untuk anda..

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

It is indeed wise not to betray family. Once that happens it's not good. Familybonds are not that strong as we like others to believe.

Thanks for the smile, I am happy with it.
🙃🍀♥️

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bahrol (68) · 2 months ago

Susah maupun senang kita tetap harus tersenyum.

Kalaupun lagi sedih jangan sampai terbawa dan hanyut dalam kesedihan.

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watii (62) · 2 months ago

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

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Jika saya mau menandatanganinya, saya dipaksa untuk melakukannya tanpa membuka paketnya terlebih dahulu.

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Penipuan lain yang Anda sebutkan adalah penipuan yang sudah ada sejak manusia ada. Jika Anda berpikir bahwa hanya wanita yang melakukan hal ini, Anda salah. Pria juga terkenal suka menipu.

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Akan sulit untuk mempercayai siapa pun jika hal ini terjadi pada Anda, namun sejujurnya setiap orang yang ingin menikah melakukan hal ini untuk mencapai sesuatu! Menikah adalah tindakan yang egois dan yang diharapkan adalah keuntungan (keuangan, status sosial, dan sebagainya).

♥️🍀

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fauziah95 (60) · 2 months ago

Terima kasih sudah mengundang saya,, makan nya kita harus selalu berhati hati ya kak jangan sampai kita jadi korban penipuan.

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watii (62) · 2 months ago

Itulah,kadang udah berhati-hati pun msik bisa kecolongan

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fauziah95 (60) · 2 months ago

Iya emang

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edywan (58) · 2 months ago

Terimakasih Bu atas undangannya,memang benar yang ibu katakan kecurangan merupakan perbuatan yang sangat tidak terpuji

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watii (62) · 2 months ago

Sama2 pak

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haryanto91 (59) · 2 months ago

Terima kasih kak sudah mengundang saya.

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watii (62) · 2 months ago

Sama2,mari2 ikut kontes

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bahrol (68) · 2 months ago

Saya paling tidak suka membeli barang secara online, kalau tidak ditipu dengan barang tidak dikirim, pasti resiko lain akan ada, seperti barang tidak sesuai dengan keinginan, tidak sesuai dengan yang dipesan, pokoknya ada saja.

Untuk menghindar ini lebih baik belanja dan cari secara offline.

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watii (62) · 2 months ago

Itulah pak emak-emak ini kadang memilih online supaya praktis aja gtu,karena terkadang MLS untuk mencari di kedai😅

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olivia08 (69) · 2 months ago

Cheating is the most painful act from someone we trusted the most. Specifically, when I love him so much. He pretending loving me but he love the third party more than me. It's hurt honestly.

wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

Cheating has many faces. What I wonder about most is why. Why not simply say: Sorry, I don't love you, goodbye. It might sound hard but if this is the fact all one has to do is say it and leave. Be a grown-up and take care of yourself instead of being an abusive parasite who only leaves if he's sure all the profits are his.
The worst thing is that a cheater like this wastes the good years of your life. I wonder why. Is it the way a sociopath works?

I am so sorry this happened to you. I know how painful it is if trust is broken and also how it is to blame oneself for not being alert enough.

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olivia08 (69) · 2 months ago

Yes, it comes to pass and I am just thankful that I am strong. I am to be blame for spoiling but I woke up and see the light. Thank you for your concern. There's no numbness anymore.

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

Once in a while the numbness will be back and so will be anger. I did the same just shorter but till today I am grateful I put it to an end although I paid a very high price and still pay. Still, it is the best thing I did for me.

Perhaps you should read the 6th nominated entry of Team True Colour written by @ germanbava. You can also read his earlier posts. I hope it helps you. Let's try to climb out of the swamp and go up!

You did very well, now invest in yourself and don't collaps.

🤗🍀♥️

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olivia08 (69) · 2 months ago

Thank you again for more encouragement and Promise you , I will be getting better.

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago (edited)

Take your time dear I know it's hard. You always was an active supportive Steemian,it's good to see you back.

I hope you feel well.
🤗♥️🍀

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olivia08 (69) · 2 months ago

I will try for better life. I read it Steem for better life 😇😇😇

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olivia08 (69) · 2 months ago

@germanbava I will check

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darthnava (71) · 2 months ago

Cheating is common among married couples here in the Philippines. The men usually do it in the past. But now even the women do it.

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shahid76 (70) · 2 months ago

Hello @darthnava,

Some cheaters are always cheaters. Be it in the Philippines or any other country. We should always be careful of them. We should be more careful about those over-eager people who come forward to help even if they don't ask for help. Only through our vigilance can we ward off the bad intentions of cheaters.

darthnava (71) · 2 months ago

Good advice, my friend. I believe in divine justice or karma. Those who cheat somehow get something terrible later in life like tragedy, financial ruin, violence or health malady.

shahid76 (70) · 2 months ago

@darthnava,
100% said the truth, the joy of earning money through your hard work and meeting the needs of your family with that income is enjoyable. You can enjoy temporary happiness with the money earned in cheating, but you have to be afraid of his misdeeds all the time. So, I will say 100 rupees of honesty is more expensive than lakh rupees of cheating.

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wakeupkitty (75) · 2 months ago

Somehow you made me laugh. Now even the woman are doing it? Even? I doubt they never did but if this is the case I find it a good thing (not the cheating but the fact there's equality). Why shouldn't women have the right to cheat? They are human just like men.

If it comes to this cheating I wonder why not just break up? There's no need to cheat if you stand for who you are or what you want. Just end the relation and you are free to do as you like. There's nothing complicated about that.

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darthnava (71) · 2 months ago (edited)

Some women do it in the past but mostly stayed secret about it.

My country is mostly a conservative and patriarchal society. Adultery is not acceptable but you see Filipino women well most of them value their family more than their emotions, there are also those who let their husband have an affair with other woman because it is just so tiring always arguing about it and they just had enough of that. Men always use their excuse of being a man just to get away with their act of infidelity.

Several connected factors are involved:

As long as poor wives are economically dependent on men, they have to put up with that and other undesirable situations.

The double standard takes an indulgent and even admiring attitude towards men’s sexual drives (in contrast to quite repressive attitudes towards those of women).

Philippine society is like many, many others in this respect.

We are religious but hypocrite society. When women have affair, they are treated as pariah of society while men are being treated as macho ( something that is expected). It is also expected to wife to forgive their husbands from straying.

There is also this pervasive belief that the wife is probably NOT ENOUGH to satisfy the husband.

Lastly, as long as the husband can provide financially and still goes back home to the conjugal house, it’s fine.

I observed that only rich women here have options for divorce since they can afford lawyers and have time and resources to attend court hearings.

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

I believe if I hear this the situation is not different from countries in Europe. Who has money can do as he like, who has a wife with a job that earns well can too.
With us the "joke" is the husband in the bar complaining "My wife doesn't understand me" and next to that, the husband is never adult enough to take care of a family even if he is ten years older than his wife. But the tables turn and we notice a change if it comes to women with an income. The higher the education the less need they feel to be stuck with a man they have to pamper and sacrifice themselves for. Marriage is no longer needed, and living together is easier but there are also living together contracts signed at the city hall. It makes it easier to separate because unlike marriage children are not involved. By now we learned that if women like it or not they will be left behind with the children while the man starts a new life. With this living together contract the children are not involved so no fights about who will take care of them since they belong to the woman. The law changed too. Since only the mother knows for sure if a couple cannot decide whose family name the child will have it will automatically be the one of the mother. So the inherent goes via the female line. Interestingly, the royal family has already done this for a few generations.

If it comes to those women accepting their husband's behaviour for longer I also belonged to that group because it's the only way to get rid of the cheater.

Thank you for taking the time to explain this. I hope we all will have a better life in the way we like to live it. There's no need to cheat within a relationship. If you don't like it I say: Please, leave and don't waste my time and life. As long as a toxic relationship remains both have no chance to start a new life.

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bahrol (68) · 2 months ago

Ini penipuan yang sangat berbahaya dalam membina sebuah rumah tangga. Jauh dari kata aman.

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sbamsoneu (68) · 2 months ago

Cheating could mean trying to outsmart someone in a fraudulent or tricking manner.

Cheating is now prevalent in every fabric of our society in Nigeria. It comes from way up (the political class) to the bottom (the common man).

Some pastors are now termed with the title “pulpit bandits” in Nigeria because they use their position to exploit naive religious members in order to enrich themselves and the members keep wallowing in poverty.

Can cheating ever be eliminated?
I will say “yes”. No one woke up to be a cheat. It’s just lack of integrity that makes one involve in fraud.

If we can all build integrity, cheating will be a thing of the past…

wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

Oh, pti6ests, church, they cheat from the day they started, same for royalty, the government and everyone who likes to make an income, car salesmen and insurance companies they all cheat.

Not born as a cheater? It's questionable babies and toddlers are smart and 1.5 year old already lie even though they have been never punished before.

To outsmart one to have the benefits sounds more postive than saying you are scammed.

Can it be a survival mechanism?

#wewrite & #comment. Did you start already? @mikitaly?

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nurnobi10 (58) · 2 months ago (edited)

Assalamu Alaikum how are you steemit friends, I hope you are all well, today I will tell you something about cheating, I hope you understand.

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We know that deception is a process or situation in which a person or a group is forcibly influenced by false or false information. Through this they usually try to save their own interests. An example of fraud could be deception, deceitful acts, or putting others at risk in some way. It can be socio economic or emotional. So I sent an awareness message to my friend @akbarmia to be aware of these cheating people.Mr. @wakeupkitty.pal Sir I also messaged you to be aware, you will try to be aware. Thank you sir for such a beautiful arrangement.

wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

Welcome to monkwy business and thank you for your warning.
We all seem to live among cheaters and the questions is how to stay alert but also be able to make friends without the risk being scammed (again).

Cheating: hunting, gaming, playing, what we sell it's all part of us since we exist (we = humankind) and worldwide we believe every lie told (cheating and lying go hand in hand). Most of the nees we hear is a big lie.

#wewrite & #comment. Did you start already?

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nurnobi10 (58) · 2 months ago

Inshallah I will do it soon.

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wakeupkitty.pal (71) · 2 months ago

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