If you want to be rich, you have to act like a rich person

Let me talk about the psychological concept: "Manifest desire".

This is a concept that was gradually popularized with the advent of behavioral psychology.

In the past, everyone thought thoughts were a guide for action, for example, you were sad, so you cried.

After continuous research, it was found that actions can negatively affect thoughts, for example when you smile, you will feel better.

This is a great discovery, after knowing this concept, many complicated things can be solved easily.

For example, when you become rich, you may be confused and don't know how to use your power, actually the simple way is to act in the way of the rich.

Summarizes the rules of conduct of some rich people, hoping to help you a little.

1. Invest yourself at any cost

A leader is a successful person. On his recommendation, I went to the Polytechnic University to study MBA more than ten years ago.

At that time, my financial situation was not very good, but the tuition fees were almost $ 20,000, so I stepped back a little.

I talked about the real reason, and the old leader said, you invested in yourself, and you can definitely get this tuition fee.

From the current point of view, the old leader was right. After studying for the MBA, not only did my intellectual knowledge increase by a large margin, but I also made many business friends, which had a huge impact on my work and life.

This tuition fee has really been recovered a long time ago, and there are many hidden benefits that never stop such as profits, and the returns are incalculable.

Therefore, investing in yourself is the most cost-effective investment. Any investment can depreciate, but investing in yourself will not.

I'm not asking you to borrow money for business school, there are actually many ways to invest in yourself, buying books and paying for courses is an investment in yourself.

Therefore, if you are so stingy even to invest in yourself, then success will be beyond your reach.

2. Unconditional self-confidence

Rich people are unconditional confident people. Simply put ugly is called arrogance.

Yes, 80% of you will dislike the kind of people around you, because they are so confident they are shameless and often aggressive.

I don't like it, I don't like it, but they tend to make it easy.

Because, you will find that most people doubt themselves, they dare not blame what they believe, and when faced with headwinds, they immediately give up their weapons.

And those rich people had faces like a copper wall three feet high and courage like a sea of ​​clouds. In the end, they actually let them get things done.

This is one of their common attributes.

So, if you want to be them, you have to be as unconditional as they are.

As difficult as it may be at first, you have to pretend to be confident and pretend to be a "self-fulfilling prophetic" drama.

3. Treat time as the rarest resource

Time is a shared resource for everyone, and it is also a bargaining chip for you to exchange value.

However, many people do not understand this truth.

They always spend their time on irrelevant things, either frustrating their neighbors, or trying to force them on the Internet.

It would be weird if someone like that could blend in well.

And the rich tend to focus on only one thing. What exactly am I doing right now?

There is a colloquial phrase in English called: What are you getting up to?

The answer is: What are you building?

Rich people have a goal of building goals for the time they spend, I want to assure business partners,

Still have to accompany the children to study?

For them, they will always understand what they are building and will not let their energy go away.

So, if you want to get better, you can always ask yourself: What are you building for?

What are you building right now?

4. Make friends with better people

Camus once said:

We rarely trust people who are better than us and would rather avoid dealing with them. On the other hand, we often confide in people who are similar to us and have the same weaknesses. We don't want to get rid of our weaknesses, we just want to receive mercy and encouragement.

This is the weakness of human nature. Being with the strong will reflect our insecurities. Therefore, we act first to be strong and avoid being with them. At this moment, everything seemed so beautiful.

Especially for people who are stronger than us, we can believe that the other party has taken bad luck or used inappropriate means, and do not want to admit that other people are better than me.

But this kind of self-deception will only confine itself to a small circle, and in the end the mud will fall.

And rich people tend to overcome this disease, they have to stay close to people who are stronger than themselves, so that they can learn from each other's strengths personally and use them for me.

Gradually, they finally became part of the strong.

Today, we are talking about four styles of behavior of the rich: investing in oneself, unconditional confidence, valuing time and making friends with the strong. If you want to get rich in the end, you can use it to limit your behavior. You have to be able to change yourself.

You can also talk about the habits of the rich around you, almost forgetting, rich people also have habitual behaviors: they like to share. This is the easiest to do.