Hello everyone, how are you feeling today?
There are people who spend all their life seeking approval from other people, they would ask permission from others about everything. When they are through they will ask if they did fine, maybe they are approved.
This kind of life is caused by inferiority complex. It is good to get feedback from others on your performance or to get feedback on your dressing or on something you did but when you depend solely on these feedbacks more than what you really want to do, it has become a problem.
When you rely on approval from other people, they may be close too. Maybe friends, siblings, and other related folks, you would not be able to make a decision on your own.
The issue of approval from people is an abuse of getting feedback, you will now rely on feedback more than what you think or want to do. You have to ask yourself, what if they are wrong?
You don't need anyone to approve of you, you can do great.
Thank you for your time...
Who exactly are you advising? Is he or she reading this?
The issue is about someone who has low self-esteem, which clouds their self-confidence, causing them to have doubts in their heart, and hence making decisions for themselves is difficult, requiring additional support from others.
On the other hand, maybe we do need to hear other people's opinions as well, for consideration. Because sometimes people's perspectives are different, we need to see things from different angles.
It's also a good idea to bring up how to bring confidence to people who are going through what you're writing about.
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I'm glad you are bringing this up too.
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Not only do I talk about it, I also ask questions.
Maybe you don't want to answer it, right?
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Hi, @fajrularifst (wow! Your nametag is difficult to get right 😁), I recently commented another one of ezun1's posts that I totally NOT umderstood. I figured, either this our fellow steemian, being a native of Nigeria, isa native speaker of one of the dozens tribal languages that exist in that part of the world and is doing a beautiful effort by trying to use a translator to publish is text (which I find tottally acceptable), and I qustioned him about that. Otherwise, we may be hosting a bot or a sloppy AI user, both of which I don't approve of with such happiness.
I am waiting for the answer to my other comment and will let you know the results, as I asked our friend to publish the text in both languages, including his native one, so I can get a coleague of mine that comes from that general area of the world to let me know if we are facing a real person here.
I'm sorry to express this opinion, but, it seems to me that ezun1 will not get offended for my questions, as my plan is to help him improve his english if it turns out that he is a real person that really wants to be a part of this community.
I just wanted to let you know that.
Have a great weekend,
Pedro
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I just woke up and read @wakeupkitty's comment forbidding me to drink coffee for a while, maybe I should replace with a cup of tea with just a little sugar, it will be good to warm up the body.
Well, regarding your suspicion, I will try to analyze it too. Thank you for letting me know. By the way, do you like coffee?
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I didn't read that comment yet. :)
I am portuguese. Portuguese people are some of the biggest consumers of coffee per capita, next to the Americans and the Italians. Only, we drink it strong and I am above average. Let's say I drink some 8 to 12 expresso shots per day. Most days, I also drink at least a couple of latte's more, on a weekend night, if it's cold, I'll have an Irish coffee. In the summer, I drink Ice Coffe. We mostly don't drink tea, here. Only coffee. Tea is for the old ladies. :D
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Is this a joke?
I find this very demeaning and offensive making assumptions about my nationality in which you know nothing about and I demand an apology immediately.
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The assumptions are not about your nationality, are about the way you write and your english not making sense. I assume your native language is not English. My native language is not English either.
I couldn't care less about where your from and there is nothing to apologize about.
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Also, I had previously commented on this, that explains the language rational in that comment.
https://steemit.com/hive-161155/@ezun1/unpleasant-lump
You also didn't answer my question, there.
I am perfectly aware that English is a National Language in your country as I am also aware that a significative number of people don't write it or read it and have difficulty in speaking it correctly. And, to be honest, you should recognize that and understand that my entry into this was from a positive perspective.
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Your entry was not positive at all, you were calling me a bot, talking about my nationality, accusing me of plagiarism, how is that positive?
If it were positive, it would encourage and help me do better but not you.
Leave my English, and the way I write alone and focus on your own post.
If you have a suggestion on how to improve my post, kindly share instead causing a scene here and there.
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Next time, please try to separate your question from your feedback for clarity sake.
Well, I write what I write hoping someone who needs it might come along. We never can tell.
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Best regards
You created exclusive and quality content
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Best regards
You created exclusive and quality content
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@mikitaly
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