yearning for a daughter

That day my wife and I were looking for offerings for her cousin's wedding party when we accidentally passed right in front of the outlets for children's equipment the wife pulled my hand and then she held it while showing a pair of pink boots and the same colored umbrella I really understood what she felt she asked me to go into the supermarket to buy it.

I also said yes because we had the same feeling that we really craved the presence of a daughter in the middle of our family, I was very grateful in the bond of love between me and him in the gift of two handsome sons and also intelligent my first child is already 14 years old age gap with his younger brother five years.

The distance between the ages of our children is not without reason I remember from the beginning of the second pregnancy of my two children the conditions faced were very concerned about my wife she experienced hyperemesis gravidarum which was very heavy in addition to difficulty eating and not being able to smell odors so that it could cause nausea which was then followed by vomiting which was very excessive and this she experienced until the seventh month of her pregnancy.

With a weak body condition he also had to be infused for almost three months and strangely enough whatever he ate always ended with nausea and vomiting and affected his psychology as well which sometimes bed moods that were wrong sometimes as a husband did not know what to do I was very concerned about his condition this happened during his wife's pregnancy.

At the age of nine, our youngest child, the wife told me that she wanted a daughter at this time from her desire now appears from her attitude and behavior when she sees accessories displayed in a convenience store for girls, she buys it and gives it to her niece whether it is a headband or a hair tie.

Sometimes in her leisure time the wife often expresses her desire to have a daughter while telling me that later she will teach her how to make sponge cake and have a story friend when in the kitchen and can prepare meals together or review a food recipe.

then I also replied that of course he would be manjan with me because of his father and every time I came home from work, he would wait for me at the door with his shabby doll with an adorable face while asking me naggingly

"Why did you take so long to come home" as he joked that he had prepared dinner with mom earlier."

which then the wife pinched me with a sense of anxiety to hear my babbling earlier but my wife was happy to listen to my words that seemed to tease her.

That's how we wished for a daughter in our small family but we are grateful for what God has given our family.