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Time flies, years in a hurry, imperceptibly, has been to the half of life. Along the way, human warmth, joys and sorrows, have dissipated with time.
Count the first half of life, flowers bloom thanks to see, mountains and rivers at a distance, the wind and waves have experienced.
In those days, I tasted the sweet, suffered the hard, climbed the valley, had the glory, but still lost in the end.
Sometimes, you and I, like a drop in the ocean, go so far that we forget why we started.
Perhaps once the day is not satisfactory, but has not been able to go back.
In the future, may you not waste, sink down to the heart, down-to-earth, live their own freehand and chic.
The second half of life, live their own.
A little carpenter went out to fetch water, and on his way back he was bitten by a dog.
Back home, the old gardener and so on to help him to deal with the wound, picked up the bamboo pole and ran out.
The old gardener saw this and quickly stopped him: "Does your wound still hurt?"
The floret shook his head.
"If it doesn't hurt, why hit the dog?"
'Because he bit me, and I hate him!
Hearing this, the old gardener went on, "If the dog bites you, you hate him; You hurt it, and it hates you. How long has this been going on? You are human, why quarrel with a mad dog."
The little craftsman did not speak, but bowed his head in silence.
Then the old gardener said, "Man, as with planting flowers, there are three ways of dealing with hate:
The first is to hold grudges, to allow the seeds of hatred to take root and grow, but still hurt themselves in the end;
The second is to forget hatred. Although the soil has been renovated, it still shows signs of having been planted.
The third kind is the most brilliant, is the initiative and the enemy reconciliation, flowers to each other, not only untie the knot, but also stay fragrant.
As the old gardener said, from small to big, we should be less careful and more generous.
Life is short, mature people, know the time is precious, not with rotten people rotten entanglements.
Spend your time with someone who's worth it and be yourself, no matter how much they care.
02
The second half of life, let yourself go.
An old man once told the story of a fisherman who found a large and beautiful pearl on the beach, but the only fly in the ointment was that there was a small spot on the pearl.
The fisherman did not take it to heart, but he kept thinking about the spot as he fished and became more and more absent-minded.
So he took the pearl out of his pocket and tried to remove the spot slowly, thinking that it would be perfect.
When he had cruelly whittle away the surface of the pearl, and found that the spot was still there, he whittle away layer after layer, and was intent on getting rid of the little spot.
So he went the whole afternoon without catching any fish, and at last the spot was gone and the pearl was gone.
Most of the time, we are like this fisherman, who picks up the sesame but loses the watermelon, obsess over the little things, but miss out on the more wonderful moments in life.
Nine times out of ten, you can't laugh if you only remember the painful parts.
The first half of life constantly pick up, the second life should learn to put down.
Life is like the sea ups and downs, let all love and hate go with the wind, all the past are landing into mud.
If the road is blocked, you will learn to turn. People can't forget, try to let go; Things too hard, we learn to let them go.
Have, a more treasure and Thanksgiving; Lose, a little more calm and calm.
When we put down the burden, precipitation past, can easily start, stride forward.
03
The second half of life, treat yourself.
In this limited life, we should not only be kind to others, but also to ourselves.
To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance and the prerequisite for a happy life.
The first half of life, busy, sleep too late, think too much, the results end up all over the tired.
At this time just discover, oneself remember everything in the heart, but forget oneself alone.
In the past, eating and drinking, drinking and drinking, until a sudden illness, it suddenly woke up: youth can be squandered, but the body can not.
The second half of life, spell is healthy.
No matter how busy you are at work, don't forget to go out more to keep fit. No matter how much social intercourse, don't forget the most simple daily necessities, a vegetable and a meal; If you work overtime, you'd rather wear out the stars than pull an all-nighter.
I like feng Zikai's words very much:
"When the heart is small, all the little things become big; When the heart is big, all the big things are small; Look down on the world and feel safe inside."
There is nothing in the world but trouble for nothing.
Instead of focusing on the trivial, spend your time on the meaningful.
Life is a process, the heart of the people, often know how to "enrich" themselves.
Have a hobby, read the books you want to read, go to the places you want to go, buy the clothes you like... Then ordinary life, can lead a poetic.
The second half of life, Thanksgiving met.
Life is a process of subtraction. Whether it is our parents or others accompanying us, time is always short.
In this limited time, please cherish the people who love you, convergence temper, pack up the anger, don't really treat you lost.
Life comes and goes, the future is not long, the first half of what is owed, the second half remember to make up.
I should be grateful for every encounter in my life, cherish the family and friends around me, remember in the flowing time, and remember in the quiet time.
In the rest of your life, may you not embarrass yourself, live up to the years, in the ordinary life, and line and cherish.
