°° An Example Is Not The Main Means Of Influencing People °°

Hei, I don't know who needs to hear this, but this is why you need to stop trying to save everybody see a baby chick, when it is hatching out of the egg? You see it's struggling. But do you know what would happen? If you were to save that baby chick from struggling to help it out of the egg? It would die shortly thereafter.

Now, you may ask what what what why is that? Well, it is because now that baby chick is not strong enough to survive in the real world, you took away something that was vital for its existence, it needed to go through that struggle to have the strength and the endurance to be able to survive in nature.

I know this is gonna sound cruel. But just like that baby chick, there are some people in our lives who we want to help, we want to help them out of the goodness of our hearts. But when we help them, we enable their demise. Sometimes the way to offer the most help, is to allow them to suffer more, before they get the strength to say, I've had enough, dammit, I want to change my life for me, I want to change my situation, they need to get hit over the head a few more times.

And another fact is this, some people deep down, they don't even want to be saved, see their problems have become part of their identity. And so if you were to solve their problems, they would lose themselves. And that's why they don't change so deep down or subconsciously, they never wanted the answers to their problems. They kind of really just wanted to complain about them.

So the next time you want to help somebody or save somebody, I want you to think about this a and think about if you're doing more harm than good, if you're helping is really enabling their demise. You know, we want so badly for some people to change some of our best friends, some of our families and we have the best, we have such good intentions.

But as they say the road to hell is paved with good intentions, we must accept them as they are.

We change people by example, not by explanation, and especially not by condemnation, because that's why Einstein said setting an example is not the main means of influencing people. It is the only means peace. Thank you!