Someone to talk to.

in hive-166850 •  3 years ago 

This is an entry for Contest 4.02: Looking Back/Look Forward #ccc by @wakeupkitty.

Looking Forward.

I need someone to talk to at home. My little girl is growing but she is not yet able to have a conversation with me. I believe I can have a better conversation with her than with her father. Her father is way too busy with his pond project. Sometimes it felt like he is not home even though he is. He is doing all of the overwork for our future, therefore I cannot complain much. His garden is growing well and the pond is getting bigger.

I do not have a picture of it on my laptop while I am writing this but I might share it with you in the future. After work and at the weekend, most of my time is spent with my little girl. It is definitely tiring especially when I feel like I have no time for myself. She is occupying me. It is tiring and honestly, it does feel frustrating sometimes but I always remind myself that I will regret it in the future if I do not treasure the moment now. The moment where she still calling me repetitively.

This beautiful moment will be lesser in the future because someone else will be snatching her away from me. I hope, before that moment arrive, I already have a bunch of beautiful moments spent with her. I am not a picture perfect mother but I do hope that I can be just enough for her. Instead of being just a mother, I want to be her friend. Her best friend. Someone she can openly tells her secret to.

I never have good conversations with my parents. I can count the time I actually talking to them openly. I want to be better for my girl. I hope I can be a better listener and we can both have decent conversations all the time. I want her to know that I can be that person to her. She can count on me.

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  ·  3 years ago (edited)

You can do this if you talk to her a lot as she gets older. It is important to talk from now on because the bond becomes very positive.
My vote y resteem.

Thank you. I do talk to her. Most of the time she is the one talking though I cannot undertand her words completely yet, I am still happy to have someone tonlisten to at home.

So your garden grows and you have a pond by now. Is the pond for own fish or?

Just talk to your girl it's what I did to my toddler and you know how to find me.
Thanks for your entry.

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Garden growing bit. The pond got fishes a bit. We have something for the kitchen at least.

That is a good start. 🍀💖

i feel you. Please just understand your husband he is doing all things for your future. Its really good to be your child's best friend. I too feel awkward talking to my parents specially in personal matters

Not being able to have a decent conversation with parents is the reason I want to be my child best friend. I do not want to be awkward.

Taking care of a young one is never easy but when they grow up to 6 or 7 years old, I think you will be able to have a good conversation with her :)

I hope so. I will patiently wait for the time to come.