Getting help from extended family members - My story

in hive-167622 •  2 years ago  (edited)

Good evening everyone, this is an interesting topic because it brings back to memory history of life and how far everyone have gone in life.
So many people have been so fortunate that they needed help from extended family while some are unfortunate that they are even the one to offer help, listen to my own story.

Have you been helped by your extended family members such as your uncles or aunts?

I have never received any help from extended family, both uncle and auntie.
I have an uncle who is a good position to help me but he's too stingy and do not care, even when life is at stake he will tell you he has no money

How did your extended family member help or refused to help you?

My uncle have broken my heart in various occasions but in two occasions where life was at stake was the height of his inhumanity to us.

The first occasion was when my father went for ruptured hernia surgery and he had complications after the surgery and there was a need for him to go back for a second surgery and it was an emergency and we needed money.

I can't forget that faithful morning that I called my uncle and he came to the hospital, he saw my father in his condition, my uncle said he will be back and till today he's still coming back.

I kept calling him and he didn't pick up, thank Jehovah for His wonderful organization our loving brothers and sisters came to my rescue and my father's second surgery was a success.

On the second occasion was when my younger brother was involved in a serious accident that almost took his life, my uncle still came to the hospital and saw his condition and he didn't bother to do anything, because of my first experience with him I decided not to call him and he never assisted us with anything till today.

On many occasions my rich uncle never cares to offer help because of what I don't know.

Do you think they were capable of helping you, but refused?

Yes my uncle is capable but refused to help, my uncle is one of the rich man that works with a company as a chief engineer and also has two large welding shop in Aba Abia state.
He has some landed property and keeps buying more property on daily basis.

Because of how you were treated by an extended family member, how do you see them?

Honestly that my uncle we are not that cordial when it comes to communication, tho we are not quarreling but I don't even remember if he exist, I only remember him in rare occasion like this.

What do you wish for them?

Well the bible says we should never repay evil with evil and that judgment belongs to God, so I wish him well I don't ever wish him bad.

Do you think you can survive without the assistance

The truth is that assistance helps most times but when there is no one to assist we have to struggle to get what we need.
My assistant has only been JEHOVAH God and I believe he's the best assistant one can ever have.
And I can testify to it that He has been assisting me any time am in difficulty.

Conclusion

It is so touching when you see your uncle or aunt who should be helpful and the person doesn't care, but I tell you one thing work hard you will get to thier level of life, never repay them back if possible offer them the needed help because they need to see how life should be.

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Wow my sister I can see you have survived already that is Faith for you,in everything never give up in God he is the alter and finisher of our faith your stingy brother will soon regret in life for being stingy to his family members leave everything for God ok
@beautybb you have done well by sharing with us some of the experiences you have passed through from your extended family members

yeah friend@innocent10 you are really a good motivational speaker i totally agree with you @beautybb abeg have faith in God oo

wow your story was very interesting and nice this is Uncle is very very wicked imagine seeing his brother in a such deadly situation like that I refused to come I wish he was my uncle will have stoned him to death from what you said I have never received any help from extended family, both uncle and auntie.
I have an uncle who is a good position to help me but he's too stingy and do not care, even when life is at stake he will tell you he has no money am sorry sorry dear God will sure make a way

Yes bro,some people are really wicked,I wonder what they do think.

May God forgive your uncle sha😩😩

Another story of uncles not helping when they should. This is so sad. I really wonder why our families should be competing while we are supposed to be complementing each other. Am happy that despite his neglect, your father and brother are still alive and doing well. Even if our own mother should abandon us, Jehovah will not do lit that. Always remember that.

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JEHOVAH has never and will never abandon His faithful servants, thank you for the review

  ·  2 years ago (edited)

Early pregnancy. If a girl child is not properly tranined and monitored she can get involved in sexual activities that will lead to early pregnancy which can lead to suffering.

My sister always wish them well don't wish anybody bad because you don't know tomorrow.
thanks for this quality contents, my regards.

Please did you read your comment at all

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sorry that was a mistake.

My assistant has only been JEHOVAH God and I believe he's the best assistant one can ever have.

Exactly, Jehovah is the only one we can depend on because he created us, he has proven to ba a father to the fatherless and husband to the widow

Many family members of ours do not deserve to be called ours but all we have to do is hand them over to Jehovah who knows the perfect way to revenge for us

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I think your uncle should helped you but he didn't anyhow but I request when when ever a family family member want to get help from you please must do you best #4Times7

Nawaoooooo,that your uncle is really heartless,how can he in two occasion refuse to help his family.
Well, God knows the best for his children.

I the tell you this uncle of her the very wicked ooo imagine o can never have this kind of devil calling him uncle god forbid

Yes bro,they are heartless.

It is bad that a person will have a relation who can help in the time of need and he will not. The lesson in your post is that self-defense is always better. Let's work had always to be able to meet our needs.

Yes be independent and never rely on anyone, because they can easily disappoint you

It's funny your Uncle keep visiting anytime bad thing happens and isn't doing anything. Like what was he even coming to do at the first place, to take pictures..😂🤲. He didn't do well at all but thank God for his divine intercession.

" My uncle have broken my heart in various occasions but in two occasions where life was at stake was the height of his inhumanity to us.

This got will get everyone emotional, funny enough it's very obvious about African Uncles especially from the father's side.
The earlier we learn to do without them , the earlier we start to know peace

My assistant has only been JEHOVAH God and I believe he's the best assistant one can ever have.

Your story is so touching and it has made me speechless. But I like the fact that you believe God is the only source of help for He said "call upon me in times of trouble and I will deliver thee"
Thank God that God is not man.

Is well oo. It pains me so much when I see people that has all it take to help and they are not helping. I pray that God will make a way for you and your family that he (uncle) will come oneday to look for your family assistance.

This life no balance. Can you imagine such a wicked heart. Even after seeing both your father and brothers situation, your uncle did not bother to help till today. Hmm. Maybe he belongs to a group that doesn't offer help to their family members. Or, he chose not to help on his own.

Am telling you but Jehovah did wonders and we are all alive

my uncle said he will be back and till today he's still coming back.

These is one of the reason i don't like seeking help from relatives, they are so hard hearted

Is very sad to have some one you can Lin a shoulder on but turns out to fail you. Thank God that your father survived the surgery and your brother came out successful of the accident

My brother some situations may push you beyond what you will like to do, but God no go shame us

Amen oo

Here your experienced with your uncle's refusal to proffered help . When you guys did need him to help in a quite an urgent manners , even when needed him most . Still couldn't just too bad . Nonetheless your immediate family hast long get survive all of that believed. Thank you for sharing.

Hmm, extended family dont help oooo, only few do. So lets hustle the one we can so that we dont depend on anyone.