Introduction

I really owe my thanks @steemalive for this splendid contest to be written about my mum. I've been willing to express my gratitude to God publicly for giving me the kind of mummy I have. I've been longing to tell steemit about my mum and behold today comes such long awaiting opportunity. Thank you @focusnow our main coordinator for writing this beautiful contest

my beautiful mum

Who's my mum

My mum is known as Joy Obiagwu, she's tall and fair in complexion with her obvious conspicuous nose. She has a charming physic and also has some facial features that make her beautiful.
But her beauty doesn't lie in her physical appearance alone, she's such a virtuous woman whose qualities and appealing character make beai before God and her husband.
She's the kind of woman that deserves praise and honour from her husband and children let me share some tips of her beauty with you.

My mum state of origin

My mum is an indigene of umuowa in Orlu Local government, Imo state.
A daughter of Okoro Nmeka in Umuchi Umuowa. The family is usually known bad Okoro Jehovah The family is known for their devoted religious activities and bthry are known as Jehovah's witnesses. That's why the neighborhood knows the family as Okoro Jehovah.

Where she got married

My mum got married in the family of Obiagwu in umudumodu Amike in Orlu local government area, Imo state. Her village is about a 40 mins trek to her husband's house.

Her parity

My mum's child birth history is pretty crucial. She had about 8 gravidarum but only 4 survived. We're just four girls band I happen to be the first surviving daughter😃😃 don't worry I promise to make her proud and spoil her with surprises because she sacrificed alot for her family. She deserves more than a million gold. She lost some of her issues thought intra uterine mortality. But she's blessed with children who really love her and appreciate her and who knows what she really worth.

my mum with her last born
This out little baby of the house is so endearing to my mum that she doesn't like hearing her cry.
This was the bby that she use to seal up her child bearing. The first three of gave her long aging gap of which I'm sure only God knows the reason.

My mum's carreer

My mum supports and assist my dad's trading business. My mum has some health challenges of which she doesn't do any tiring work. So assisting my daddy in shop is the only job my dad allows her to do.

My mum is a self sacrificing woman.

My sacrificed her health just to bear us. Child bearing would have taken his life is not for God's loyal love. But my mum risked her life and lost some part if her health just bear us.
My mum is such a self sacrificing woman, which do I even mention. My mum sacrificed her meals just to feed us. I can remember life in those days that hardship almost chopped us down. My mum will go hungry to see that she fed her children. My mum made a lot of sacrifices on our behalf. All the while we got sick, my mum doesn't play with our health. She'll carry us till we get better. If our health demands admission on hospital bed my mum is staying there with us.
Even till now that we've grown to small adults my mum still take care of us. She still buy our necessities and take care of us. She'll go cash dry to fetch us some money. She notices when we lack to supply us even though she's not financially buoyant.
She sacrifices much to support my daddy, she lives in chronic pain but always stand by my Dad's side to see his business moves well.
My mum sacrifices our meals just to show hospitality to strangers it visitors. My sacrifices her self respect just to maintain peace with others.
Among all she's a hard-working woman despite health challenges and sacrifices her convenience, strength in order to play a mother's role. What a sweet mum!

Are their difficult situations your mum face? (past or present)

My mum has undergone so many troubles and trials in her life.
One of the most difficult challenge is her health problem. My mum leaves with pain and this disposes her to depression. The pain is chronic. She doesn't do difficult task she doesn't carry heavy loads. Thank Jehovah for my loving daddy who understands his wife and take care of her.
My mum has undergone some challenging situation from friends and family who ridicule her and pay her good with evil but despite all these problem she remains calm under stormlike situations.
Childbearing is one of the factor that has caused her major emotional pains in life. She had undergone so many ceaserian section due to process of child birth, she lost most of her unborn child and so forth. So this leaves her with emotional scar and agony but presently she derives strength from her heavenly father Jehovah who strengthens her.

What unique qualities of your mum would you want to copy?

As for unique qualities where do I start from, my mum's generousity keeps me in awe when I think of it, my mum is not all buoyant financially but my mum gives in secret with the little she has.
My mum doesn't eat alone, the little food she has she shares it.
My mum can't turn a begging hand down who needs her help. My mum's generousity is worth imitating. My mum's house is open for everyone.
My mum's kitchen is open for everyone.
She doesn't find favour with her gift of mercy before rich people that will repay her, that even amaze me more.
My mum finds the poor and lowly to make friends with, widows, fatherless children, aged ones and people that don't have much. She opens her generous hand to people that will not repay her back.
She believes that whenever she lends to the lowly she's lending to Jehovah her creator because God cares for such ones.
My mum is a woman of hospitality who displays her kindness but little and small to everyone she comes across with.
She makes her home a Raven of peace from strangers. She shares our little meal with visitors and strangers and she impacted that to us.
We're ready to curtail ourselves and follow her show hospitality. She's very accommodating.
My mum is humble and make friends with even little children, she plays with them all. Children loves her so much. Even though she has troubling conditions it doesn't interfere with her relationship with others.
Best among all, my mum is a godly woman who loves Jehovah, together with my father they taught me about Jehovah and inculcate loving my creator inside me.
My mum hates immorality, and she's responsible for her responsible children. From infancy my mum taught us chastity. My mum is not the kind of woman that'll pursue her children to men for money. My mum is really a virtous woman. My mum is a humble woman who remains calm before trials. She'll rather roll on his problems in prayer to her heavenly father than to shouting. I wish I'll exhibit all my mum's qualities.
My mum is my my live model.
I love my sweet mum

my godly mum

me, my mum and my littlest sis

Conclusion

I there by thank @focusnow our general coordinator the founder of steemalive for this powerful contest. @bright-obias, @stephenkendel, @whitestallion.
Cc @steemcurator01, @steemcurator02
Written by, @chizikky187
Written for, @steemalive