Hello, my fellow steemians, I count it as a real privilege to be in this community, in my blog today I will be participating in a contest organized on this platform by the community.

INTRODUCTION

Life itself is a journey", some journey through it with ease, without stress, because they were born with a silver spoon. They never experienced a life of hardship, they have all they need at their disposal. I ponder and wonder if they know there are categories of peasants they will need to assist, to make life meaningful for such kinds of people, which I happened to be one.

My 3 Top Challenges or Struggles

1. The Distraction of my Farm By the Fulani Herds

2. How boggled my Shop

3. My Phone was damaged beyond repair

4. The Distruction of my Farm By the Fulani Herds

• How did it begin?
  Life wasn't easy, to be frank, in 2019 it was miserable for us as a family. As a graduate living in a country that attaches little relevance to the practicality of education, l decided to help myself by engaging in farm activities. For the first time, I borrowed money to get farmland, planted my grains, Fulani's destroy it, then the subsequent year I still borrowed money from my neighbor which is a businesswomanto make it more largely even if they should destroy it I will still get some that are left but Fulani swear that I will not rest, it was miserable.

####My Farm ####

• For how long have you Been Through this Challenge

This challenge has lasted for two farming seasons.

• What Difficulties have these Challenges Caused you

This challenge has limited the quantity of food consumption in my family because we farm for family, so we have to be buying these products at the market and sometimes we don't have enough money to buy as much as we desire.

• What have you done to solve it or cope?

God has been helping us gradually, I had to start up a provision shop to keep myself busy.

1. Thieves Boggling my Shop

• How did it Start

After I left the farm work I decided to open a shop so that I can keep myself busy because an idea mind is the devil's workshop, after a while, bad boys came from my community and vandalized the shop and catered away with all my goods.

• For How long Have you Been Through the Challenge?
  Because I combine farm with the shop a little, I opened the shop in 2020 till last two months, the shop was boggled in July 2020. So as there was no money to start over again I decided to short it down last month.

• What Difficulties have this particular problem caused you.

This has made me a seat at home mother

• What have you done to Solve it or cope?

I have tried to manage with whatsoever my husband provides and will not compare myself with orders because I know that one day I will come out of it.

1. My Phone Damaged beyond Repair

• How did it begin?
  The phone started having issues towards the end of 2020.
• What Difficulties have this Particular Problem Caused for you

Yes I have been faced with a lot of difficulties due to this phone problem, what pains me most now is that @charis20 introduced me to this platform and I saw it as a way to keep myself busy, but I couldn't participate fully because of lack of phone. Most time I miss calls from friends and family because of it.

• What have you done to solve it or cope

My Damaged Phone

Presently, I have decided to become to @charis20's house to use her phone to write on my blog which is highly inconveniencing to both of us.

Type Of Help I Will Appreciate

What I will really appreciate now as a help now is the help of a good phone. Why I said so is because with the help of this phone I can stay on my blog to make some little cash that can help me settle some other issues. I can with time stay another shop that is more equipped security wise and I will eat what I desire to it. Also this will help me to assist my husband in no small way.

Thank you so much for taking your time to go over my work and to @steemalive for organizing this contest, hope it was not a long one.

Best Regards
@desiredlady