Dream Spouse My top 4 qualities I would love you to have.

Trustworthy
For me it is extremely important to marry someone I can trust, to earn my trust means she is worthy to rely on and also comfortable to be confiding with. A partner that comes with trust is authentic and like to be with real people. Trust brings consistency, integrity, kind,resourceful and connector. Trustworthy is a strength, its definitely a disaster if trust is no where to be found in life of a potential partner

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Respect
It its a cornerstone of any relationship, the word "respect" command lots of attitude, high regard,good opinion, honor,polite greetings, consideration, reverence. Both partner are expected to know more that the other person its a whole person and not a bank or charity homes or any other institution where we tend to get what we want when we want it. I for one needs to believe my partner come with different experiences and her own opinions

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Common interest
Shared interest in a relationship its a rare plus in any giving relationship. A lot of things works in favor of what you shared without mixing words instead of trying to convinced your partner to see things in my own way. Shared interest are added advantage and by no means be a sign of good relationship. Having things in common with partner does not guarantee that loves, respect,affections exist in a relationship, but its certain you will have a common ground of interaction. So being able and ready to take interest in each others interest,core value is enough to make each other feel value

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Humorous
Humor is a quality that's contagious and can lighten everything up in a tense moment. It does not mean she is superficial and never takes thinks serious, No!!!. Humor is an action word that brings immediate bond, pleasure and fun in its own context. When a partner says that their partner's laughter was never far away, its a confirmation that their relationship is solid and stable. Humor can serve as an asset to relationship, humor can replace nagging, it can also helps to laugh at our own defects , it helps to live a healthier life. Escaping reality is not always possible but with a humorous partner , temporary escape from a cruel experience its assured

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Special thanks to @ngoenyi and @mondarl .