DIVING YOUR SON BEFORE YOU GET A WIFE

in hive-167622 •  4 years ago  (edited)

My son! Men have three great responsibilities: To make parents proud, make their wives happy and be a good example for their children to follow. Parents cannot go the rest of their lives. The one who shares my hardships, my hardships, my joys, my sorrows for the rest of my life, is the stranger woman I will choose to be wife. This is also a woman patient enough, loving enough to take care of her child.

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She not only brings psychological and physiological bacance, but also an emotional support, a source of spiritual encouragement for children. Therefore, in the life of husband and wife, children should not be arbitrary, petty, selfish, too limited, too petty. Must try to ignore mistakes, habits of your partner, but do not affect family life much. You must always remember: "The past is the past, the present is life". If in the past, your partner made mistakes, then you should live with tolerance and generosity. Living in this world, everyone has flaws and flaws, dear! You have to live a high life so that she is grateful, respectful, and love you for the rest of your life.

People with high education do not necessarily have culture. People with high status do not necessarily have a perfect personality. To have a good character you must start with the smallest habits in work and daily life.
In a conflict, you must be fair and generous. Be delicate in your use of language to avoid hurting your partner. No matter how dignity or dignity you have outside of society, at home you must still be the breadwinner of the family, and always make family the number one priority.

People often say: Men build houses, women build homes. But according to my father, this is true, but not enough. Because cultivating family happiness is a common thing, all family members must have responsibility. In the era of technology 4.0, everyone has to work in hustle and bustle, so a great husband, Mr. Sun, must be someone who regularly helps his wife with housework.

In the life of husband and wife, you must find out for the strengths of a partner. Never be petty, point out, look for weaknesses in personality or in the life of your spouse to persecute or question. Avoid harsh speech, lack of subject, predicate. Absolutely not confess you, confess me, disrespect your spouse. Always show the most sincere, considerate, amiable, sociable, and loving attitude.

If unfortunately, if you have an argument with your partner, don't talk much. Just say softly enough, no need to hammer big. A wise husband must know when to speak, when to be quiet.

My son! My ancestors often admonished their children: "The green leaves are green, the parents are gentle to give virtue to the children". Parents must be a good example for their children to follow, from words to actions. How much parents educate their children is not better than using themselves as an example. If you love your wife, then your children's future can be filled with love and happiness.

You must always remember: When parents love and protect each other, family is in harmony, children can grow up in an environment of healthy love.

A husband who respects his wife is the one who knows how to protect her, from physically to her spirit. Do not brute, offend your partner. In particular, you must pay attention and respect your spouse's hobbies and talents.
You know what? The period of pregnancy is the most difficult and strenuous period for a woman. It is the wife and children who have taken on that responsibility to bring joy and happiness to the family. So you should never lament, bored when your wife is no longer as slender and beautiful as hot girls, do not show sadness when your partner's physiology suddenly changes during pregnancy. and raising children.

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About the mother-in-law and the bride-in-law, it is still the same. Therefore, in order for your family to be truly warm and peaceful, you must be the bond between the two women who love you the most. Do not let your mother feel that you have lost your dear son and your spouse feels that the person you have been with and loved all your life is too weak.
My son! In marriage, a husband who is tolerant and understanding with all his heart must have a good wife, a husband must actively take care of his wife in order to have a good marriage.

Having a happy home is a dream for everyone. So you must always keep in mind that: "It is better to eat vegetable porridge. Happy family reunites together. More than fish meat filled with fish. Each person falls alone day by day ... "

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