Greetings member's of the steemalive platform, it is with joy in my heart writting about this contest, because any one in this life may have had such experience same here as me. I also thank @focusnow for the good things he has being doing for the member's of the steemalive platform and i pray that should guide and continue to bless him.
Let me tell you my personal story of how i was helped by my uncle
Being an orphan at age of 6 when i lost my mum was the worst moment in my entire life, my dad passed away when i was 3 month old and i grew up knowing only my mum, she ment the whole world to me😂😂 but she also died and left in this sinfull world all alone. Life had not been easy since then. When my uncle came for my mum's burial he consoled me (i was the only child my parent had) and told me that it is not the world that as far as he is alive he will do everything possible to make sure that he take's goos care of me.
Suprisingly for me after my mum's burial my uncle told me that he is going to take me along with him to his house and that from that i will become his responsibility, with joy in my heart i took all my belongings and went with him.
I was wormly welcomed by my uncle's wife and she told me that i should see her as my mum from that day unward i was like oh God thank you for making me happy again in this life. Adapting to a new enviroment was never easy, when i arrived at my uncle's house it took me one full month to know and interact with people. I received good treatment from my uncle as well as his wife too, they treated me as if i was their biological son trained me in school and gave me everything i wanted a child. if not for my uncle i wonder how my life would have been today.
I think yes because he had a good job then, he had no child and also they was less responsibilities for him to take care of, he what any good uncle in his shoe will do. In my opinion i think he is the best uncle any one will ever pray for.
My advice to a friends who are been ignored by their relative is that;
• Think about where the're good at and what's good about them. Remember times when you've been accepted, when you made the cut, when someone told you "yes." Think of all the people who like you and support you.
• Give yourself credit for trying. You took a risk — good for you. Remind yourself that you can handle the rejection. Even though you were turned down now, there will be another opportunity, another time. Get philosophical: Sometimes things happen for reasons we don't always understand.
Be Positive
When you're dealing with a painful emotion like rejection, it's easy to get caught up in the bad feeling. But dwelling on the negative stuff can feel like living the experience over and over again. Not only does it keep hurting, it becomes harder to get past the rejection.
So admit how you feel but don't dwell on it. Avoid talking or thinking about it nonstop. Why? Negative thinking influences our expectations and how we act. Getting stuck in a negative outlook might even bring about more rejection. It certainly doesn't inspire a person to try again.
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