Prowriters hub w-6:Should the firstborn child of a family be male or female?! by @ogwo

Preface

Hello dear friends,how are you all doing and welcome once again to my blog,today i will like to be sharing with you in a very important topic and also the issues of some family.eome think that it is good to have a male child as the first born of the family while others think it's good to have the female child as the first born in the family.now I will like to touch in some parts of this post,hope you will find it interesting reading through this post.

Do you think the position is best for the male or female child

For me,I think the position is best for the female child, because in my family the first child is the make and I know the reason why I want it to be a female child.
because,woman have the sense of caring which is given to them by God.And in that,if they are the first born in the family they will look and take care of the other ones and therefore reducing the work of the mother in the house.

Advantage and disadvantage of the male and female

Now,I will break this into smaller parts,I will first discuss with you the advantage of having a male as the first child and also the disadvantage,then I will discuss again with the advantage and disadvantage of having a female as the first born.

Male

Advantage
One advantage of having a male in the family is that the male will only be willing to do hard works like fetching water carrying loads and others.

another advantage is that if the father gives birth to only a boy and kicks the bucket,the boy will inherit his father's property.

The male child helps to scare away external enemies from attacking the family just like the father.

Disadvantage

one disadvantage is that some boys find it difficult to do some minor works in the house like washing the plate,cooling and others.

Not having time to take good care of his smaller siblings.

Female

Advantage
Helps in so many works in the family like cooking,running some errands,washing the plate,sweeping the house and others.

Takes good care of her smaller siblings and fights for them whenever a grown up fellow attacks them.

Disadvantage
If the parents only gave birth to a female child,her kinsmen might come to claim her father's property and leaving her with nothing.

They might get married early and therefore leaving the whole job for the mother and at the end it might bring stress to the family.

there are other advantage and disadvantage of these to genders been firstly born in the family but this is how I can say them depending on my knowledge.

About our first born in the family

Yeah,in my family the first born is a male child and his name is Eleke chukwu reuben,he is currently living here in aba but not with our parents rather with his uncle,he has graduated from his o level and now he is planning on how to get to the top of his education (university).

What is so special about him

He has really great qualities but one thing I hate about him is that he do eats too much😀😀,but the special thing about him is that he really helps me in my day to day activities,he gives me updates of things that I can do to gain myself some cash even though he is not living here with us.i so much like him because he wants my success in life and has sacrificed both finacially and oral to see that I am the sparkling light in the future.

How should parents prepare first born to carry on the works of the family

Really good question,first born should be prepared in a good way because they have much loads to carry in their life time.now I will hint some of the necessary things parents should do to make their first born good and intelligent to carry on the family activities.

Parents should treat them in such a way that they should love and Carter for each other in the family.

Parents should teach them on the benefits of helping others outside the family.

parents should teach them on how to be hardworking in life so that they may succed in life.

First born are really targeted by enemies who fight against the bread winner of the family and at such,they hsoukd teach him on how to be smart.

Parents should teach in the spirit of leadership in him so that he can lead the family to a greater level.

Closure

wow,am really happy for this nice topic,first born whether male or female should be regarded in the family and should also be taught on his or her works as the first born of the family and by so doing we all will know that both the male and female are all needed in the family.

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