Contest//My Dream Spouse - top 4 qualities I would love you to have// by @sammylinks (100% powered up)steemCreated with Sketch.

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Introduction

Love is so sweet and can't be equal with anything else in the universe. It is a strong feelings to a person, who might have little or not influence over. It does not ask for anything, it bears all things and covers many sins. If it is not love, it is not. So, don't be cheated! It should be mutual and should not be tested to see how strong or weak, it is.

To my spouse to be, I will appreciate that being more than anyone in this world, she will be the best and truly, I will love her despite her flaws because we all are imperfect and have flaws. But what are the esteemed qualities that I will treasured in her?

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Obedience

What did God wants from humans in respect with his provision, protection and care except obedience? Obedience is the key to everything. With this quality intact, I know that our plans will be successful. Obedience should not be merely based on age bracket, wealth, social status etc. But it should stemmed from the innermost person of her. She should show that she obeys me in all respect whether I am present or not. With that, my love will know no boundaries to where she is. But, I will obey her too. From my examples on this, she will be at her best.

Respect

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Respect is a quality that will endeared me to her. It should not be hypocritical or mere assumption. It is an action. It should not be only to me, also on everything that I believe on. I will show her respect too not as a woman as we look down on feminine ones but as my spouse and my better-half.

Trust

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According to one online dictionary, Trust is defined as

firm belief in the reliability, truth, or ability of someone or something.

In line with the meaning of trust in this dictionary above, she should have full trust in me. Believe me in everything more than anyone else apart from God. With this, nobody will put us apart. She will know my resources and be able to control them as I will. Nothing will break us! This is exactly what I want.

Forgiveness

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According to wikipedia, Forgiveness

is the intentional and voluntary process by which one who may initially feel victimized, undergoes a change in feelings and attitude regarding a given offense, and overcomes.source.

It is far different from condoning my errors. It should stemmed from her heart. We are imperfect and bound to make mistake. I will appreciate it more if she will show understanding and forgive me freely as letting a bird free.

Conclusion.

My woman will not be angel but I will appreciate her more if her good aspect is more than her wrongs. There are many qualities that are endearing and we are not born with them. I will appreciate her to be my best!

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Nice qualities, I love them

Obedience, respect,trust, forgiveness; these are good qualities that you have outlined to look for in a woman @sammylinks. Hopefully you would see someone who has all these qualities.

You've such a very good qualities whichikes to mine in a way and I hope you've the qualities of your woman; I might guess one of them which will be Godliness but you seem not to care cause you did not mention that...Nice write up tho
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I love a God fearing attitude. When I said something about

It should not be only to me, also on everything that I believe on.

Since I believe on Godly principles , she will believes on them too.

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