Contest: "My Dream Spouse - top 4 qualities I would love you to have" (100% POWERED UP)

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INTRODUCTION
Helloooooooooooooo!!! Greetings to you guys it is with great pleasure and joy that I participate in this contest. It's a good one and a way to share ideas on the kind of partners we have or want. I want to appreciate @focusnow for bringing his wonderful idea in the @steemAlive platform.

We all want comfort, someone to attend to you, someone to listen to you when no one would, someone to laugh with even at the darkest moment of the day. How do we achieve this, it through marriage. Everyone wants to get married and enjoy all those goodies that comes with. But we can't just marry anyone, we each person has his/her own choice and I for one I do have my own choices. I have so many qualities I seek in a man and getting married to a man are based on the following;

GOD FEARING
A home build on God is a very good home. I want a man who loves, fears God and follows God's commands. When o was small and till date I have always admired some families in my community as the always come to church. They have showed so many good examples for others to follow and some who were not acting as a family and following God's ways. I used to admire my God parents as the were perfect examples for others couples and upcoming couples to follow. They did not only show this example only in church but back in the community where they interact with people. This gave me a positive spot for marriage in my life. This has made me to have a husband who is going lead the family on a Godly way and bring up our children to love and fear God. I also want to attend church events with my husband close to me. Having a God fearing husband will increase my spirituality, have God's blessings always as family through our actions in the house, community and church serving God.

HIS ULTIMATE LOVE FOR ME
This is the very first and most important aspect for me that I consider. If I should engage with you for anything then you should love me and I always want my man to love me more than do love him. Experience has taught me to trade this way because in the past I loved more than I was loved so I will appreciate it if my future husband will love me without any barrier. I am a very loving and lovable lady and I don't hesitate to show my love to you once I feel it. One thing is that it is also dangerous to have a husband who doesn't love you. So many things will go wrong that you may go mad trying to solve the puzzle.
About two weeks ago some guy who claims is interested in me asked to marry me and when I rejects his offer he boldly told me he doesn't love me but wants to marry me. I saw this as madness because I can't marry you if I don't love you. What he wants is just a business kind of marriage to make is business grow through my ideas as he saw I have so many positive knowledge on the kind of business he wants to do.

I want my husband to really love me and I love him too with this we will build a strong family and home out of love.

SOMEONE WHO LOVES GROWTH
What does this means me? My dream husband should be that person who has a growth mindset always. It is very difficult to be with someone who doesn't want to grow and continues to remain at the same spot. I am that kind of person who always want to see things moving, turning my challenges into opportunities and act on them. I don't let failure get the better part of me. So it will be so helpful having someone who can give you positive advice and encourages me to achieve my goals in life. In return I do same to him because if he succeeds I succeed, if he fails I fail too and vice versa

KIND-HEARTED, GENTLE, RESPECTFUL
All of these comes from the first two qualities. A man who is God fearing and loves me will definitely respect me, be gentle and kind to everyone around him.
This brings me memories of my sweet late grandpa, he has more than these qualities and I have always prayed to have these kind of husband. I know it's very difficult to find a man who can do so but I do believe in to have mine amongst the 1% of such men in the world

Presently I have someone (see picture below) I really admire and would love to have a home with. He has about 75% of the qualities I want in a man. He's a very nice guy but what keeps me back is his christian live and I am embarking on a project concerning that because it's important to be in Christ Jesus. Also there are others who seem to have such qualities but I have everything in prayers once I finally make my decision then I will select any of them with the best quality rating.

My dream spouse

CONCLUSION
Marriage is not an easy phaes of life so before one gets into it you need to take your time and choice the partner you want who is going to make you feel happy and give you peace. Above all lead you and the family to God. Thanks for reading my entry for the contest.

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