The Wrong "Sense Of Entitlement" Mentality; You're Not Deserved Of What You're Not Getting

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Feeling a sense of entitlement to what you're not deserved of is the beginning of greed, it's like an Imbalanced fraction and sincerely I believe give should equal take and any adulterated sense of sentiment to it brings Irrationality. and this makes you begin to hate the people who would probably uplift you. In life, the reason why people hardly say "thank you" is because they feel that the gesture they have gotten for something they have given is rather too small for what they have actually given out and this creates an inner rancour and they develop a sense of impudence within them and while they might not see anything wrong with their behavior, they keep degenerating in character and wallowing in self-pity and this makes them distant themselves from people who they feel are giving them too little and they fail to consider one thing which is; is is there someone else giving them more than people who they feel are giving them so little? I have been trying to help someone of late only to discover an unappreciative tendency about them and it makes me wonder why people wants to become so rich overnight even when they know that baby steps matters a lot in every process.

One thing you must understand is that value goes for value and nothing goes for nothing although this phenomenon might be a little bit aggrandizing but the truth is that it's just the basics of being an achiever in life. For every time you actually do not want to say thank you to someone for endeavouring to help you then try as much as possible to add value to them, the phenomenon of adding values is that people feel indebted or inclined to simultaneously add value to you. But when you bring nothing to the table, your best chance of actually attracting that much needed help is having the value of gratitude which is somehow underestimated by someone who's seeking for help but valued by someone who is actually stretches a helping hand. Some people might say you don't need to say thank you before someone should help you of course this is actually true but when you don't show gratitude and you don't bring value to the table then what will be the motivating factor to someone to help you for a second time?

I've asked for help from people in the past and they have intermittently turned me down knowingly, however they are not indebted to me and so I shouldn't see it as a disappointment that they turn me down because somebody can choose to be of help and somebody might choose not to be. It is our job to understand their positions and stances as well as situations as to why they are choosing or they're not choosing to be of assistance at that particular moment. But when you wallow in in self-pity or self loathing and blame you actually develop a particular mindset that you are entitled to their assistance. But have you flipped your script and looked deeply to see if they owe you? So why the sense of pomposity or overdependence? @raj808, @ogoowinner @lizanomadsoul and @adetorrent will continue being the best friends I have on the blockchain and they're not all whales, so transcending to real life, you don't need your friends to be your financial saving grace before you see them as friends and that's a rational truth many are not ready to put up with.

We make friends for things that transcends above money or materialism we make friends for things money can't buy in essence when someone shows you a little gesture even when it seems they can do better than that, the best is to show gratitude because they even made attempts to give out from the plenteous they have in the first place. Irrespective of what you see, it is not everything you perceive of someone that might be true. For example somebody might look rich to you when you are approach them for help however it might be that the current situation they are will prevent them from helping you but the fact that you failed to consider this possibility is why you become left out from the good things they might do for you in the future. Learn to show gratitude and look at the failure of people from a Magnanimous point of view rather than just a narrow or self-conceited point of view which is really destructive. In earnest people mildly shy away from you vwhen you're unappreciative because like it or not everybody wants a a pat in the shoulder for doing something even when they don't say it, it is left for you to be a human and do that which makes people see you relevant whenever they make decisions in life.

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