Man is a social animal. He needs to be constantly remain in touch with other humans every now and then.
The age of social media has made it very easy to interact with other humans without moving out of the house. People connect with their Ioved ones through chat or videos calls. It surely provides a way to enhance our well being by spreading positivity on the online platforms.
But then, it has also resulted in online troll and hate speech towards other fellow humans.
Before social media, when an immature person tried to speak ill of others, he would be immediately hush hush by his elders(those having more wisdom than them).
But on social media these trollers have got a free hand, thinking of themselves as intellectual people,to criticise and troll others without any logic. Above all without getting a punch on their face.
They took advantage of their anonymous identity to spit illogical statements, they themselve don't know about. In real life, such people wouldn't dare to do so, because someone will definitely gonna pull the shit out of their retarded brains.
These people call themselves keyboard Warrior who hide behind their keyboards while maintaining their anonymity.
They target people who are doing great and big than themselves.
They target mostly celebrities, politicians, public figures, and content creators.
How to identify keyboard warrior?
Through their comments which are:
- Not relevant
- Without any logic
- Full of negativity
1:
Recently, i came across a post of our actress, being called FAT on the pictures she posted after becoming a new mom. We expect our female celebrities to drink a magic potion and get back their slim bodies right after delivering their baby, which is humanly not possible if they're feeding their babies.
However, these keyboard warrior don't understand such things and post rubbish comments online without any relevance to the actual post.
2:
Another hate speech which our young CSS officer gets on social media, on sharing his work life on instagram. He became a civil officer after cracking the most difficult exam.
People call him sifarshiya (briber) and a burden on the economy of our country. Just because he is a govt officer getting paid from our tax money, it doesn't mean that he deserves the hate.
He just laughs his heart out as if saying to these troll: so what about you jerks? Come and grab this seat after working hard, rather than bashing others who are ahead of you in their professions.
But the trolls will blame others and circumstances for their own failures.
3:
As i live in the Islamic republic of Pakistan, i see a lot of keyboard warriors teach Muslim women about our religion by saying:
- Cover your body(head to toe)
- Make gol roti (round bread)
- Don't get education
- Get married, obey your husband, have children and die.
If she fails to do so she would be branded as Slut who is spreading vulgarity with her bare body. I don't get these trolls, if you (boys) are that bothered with such women then stopping seeing their profiles. Rather focus on becoming a good person who respects every women despite the length of their clothes.
It's that simple.
4:
Then comes the politicians who are not naive at all but they don't deserve their character assassination in response to their statements on corruption, national, and geo political issues.
Haters of one of our national hero and former Prime minister, always call him a play boy and Jewish agent. All just for standing on his firm stance on corruption and religion.
The answer to any political statement should be political and logical, and not a direct attack on their character.
I know people commit sins or used to commit sins in the past. If they're changing and becoming religious, preaching it openly, then it doesn't make them hypocrate.
However, some people are so sensitive to such issues that they wouldn't think for a second to call them KAFIR(person out of our religion).
If i say that no one has gone through the level of character assassination on digital media as our former PM, it wouldn't be wrong. But he didn't retaliate to such non sense and kept doing his work(now he is in jail though)
Big celebrities and politicians don't bother such trolls because:
A lion doesn't concern itself with the opinion of sheep."
They key to deal with keyboard warrior is to:
- Ignore them
- Block them
- Reply with kindness
When you know the psychology of the keyboard warriors and trolls it will be easier to deal with them.
They create an online mayhem everywhere they go
These warriors usually don't have any successes in their life. They are anti-social, have no one to listen them in real life, that's why they fight over patty things online to get attention.
They are emotionally immature people who don't use the prefrontal cortex of their brain. Whose purpose is to help us in decision making and thinking before acting. Hence, they act without any locus of control.
They act on their impulses compulsively.
An ideal person's prefrontal cortex develops at the age of 25, however, some adults still live without using their brains. You can see them in their 30s, 40s, and even 50s, judging others for the things they don't know a thing about.
Age is just a number when it comes to intelligence, kindness, and emotional maturity.
If you come across these trolls, ignore them, don't feed them your attention, and retaliate (if crucial) with kindness.
Put down the weapons(keyboard), you fight with,
And
Kill Them With Kindness
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Thank you for reading.
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I totally agree with you!
Here we do not call them keyboard warriors but keyboard heroes (the word is sarcastically meant since it's not about heroes but cowards).
Society worldwide has changed. We no longer correct each other's children or other adults but keep our mouth shut because we are afraid. Well not me. I am glad I am not part of the scared we generation.
It's a choice to make the difference even if this means people dislike you. We live in the year 2024 and still men and women are not equal, not in Pakistan, not in the Western world.
I find it strange women have to cover their body because men can not behave. The worst I find teachers overhere tell female students, children, to cover their shoulders because boys and male teachers might not be able to behave. If that is the case these boys/men should be punished and kicked out of school.
I wonder why their mothers did not raise their sons well.
My son would never show disrespect to a woman and noone of my children would to the elderly.
Like said society has changed and the elderly are labelled as waste, boring. Wisdom is brought by wikipedia, fake news, social media, scammers and deep fake.
I am glad I am not a child growing up behind a computer screen with a phone glued to my hand, noone of my children did. We do not watch television since at least 21 years. It is a relief.
All I can say is: these people, trolls, are not real, and the internet is not the real world. FB friends aren't friends, people can be blocked, reported and a computer and phone can be switched off. Use these options and use the internet wisely, for your benefit only and build a life without it.
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I wonder the same thing, women go through gender abuse then why do they not inculcate manners in their sons, what amazes me is that we have majority of women here who blame the victim's dress and character for getting raped or assault at any level, no one talk about men for doing the ugliest things.
She will surely gonna get raped if she wears that or if she drives alone at night, bla bla bla....
unFortunately, mostly such things come from uneducated people. We are learning to break this cycle of abuse and IT'S THE TIME to teach your sons and brothers as well.
Oh dear that is such an achievement, it feels like a surreal dream to us gen z.
I just want to maintain the balance between real and virtual life, and not live the gadgets all together, it's an art to learn and teach the new moms who deliver a mobile along with their babies these days😂
No offense to anyone:)
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That's how women are here too. They can be the worst. My guess it they say it out of fear. If you point fingers at someone else you look a better person.
Most women never go to the police. They will be blamed and the police officer (just like the judge) only make the victim more miserable. If it comes to rich abusers the victim lies, if it was a foreigner he says it's normal in his country. They told women for decennial not to fight back to avoid being killed.
Now society and justice blame them because they did not.
I worked many years with victims of sexual abuse. Women and men (in their homes included: incest).
Women aren't safe anywhere. If it comes to murder on women the highest percentage is killed at home by someone they knew and I assume trusted. It says enough.
Although there are more boys than girls are born, there are way more women than men. Still, we do not seem to have the right to live a good life. Still, all those women have less influence on the behaviour of their children.
For sure television, internet, trolling, porn and even school have a way bigger impact on how even the latest generation behaves.
It saddens me that this brainwashed but still old fashioned generation is the future.
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Ahh, the audacity of the police officers amazes me, in our country a senior police officer pointed out the victim(a mother) of gang rape, on media,that if she would drive alone at night then this would be the obvious consequence.
I just wanted to punch his face(i couldn't because he was on TV)
Like you guys are total failure when it comes to your duties like law enforcement and civil protection, but oh bro their audacity to teach women to stay at home, otherwise you know what i mean💔
It's time for the women to be superwomen and raise the men (we all adore in our imagination).
Hoping for the change to come by bringing a change myself with little i can do❤
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I really hope I can make a change. I know I did with my son and if it comes to my 4 daughters I want them to be safe and free.
No matter male or female everyone should be safe outside and driving in his/her car at night.
A police officer like that can't be trusted.
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