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Back again with this post about taking part in a challenge contest in the Steem For Ladies community with the title ; SEC16W3 : Raising boys and girls

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Should boys and girls be raised in the exact same way?

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Human life in the world has been created with two types of people, men and women, then they become one life partner so we can say there is a father and mother as parents, therefore as parents you should raise your children without discriminating between genders. because every child, both male and female, is given the same rights in obtaining affection and love from parents, education and they also have the same rights in other necessities of life, but there are also some differences in everything, there are things that must be sensitive to. regarding their situation where men are synonymous with courage while women are identified with gentleness.

Providing them with an understanding that boys and girls in the family are of course different, where boys have to be more assertive and girls have to be gentle because in their environment these things cannot be separated so everything will be fine. We need to remember that every child is special and has a character within each of them with various characteristics so that every child, both boys and girls, is born with a character given to them by God, so we as parents can only direct and guide them well so they grow up with good character.

In certain circumstances, when looking after and caring for them in the same way, for boys, we as parents have to have a good way to make it easier for them to understand all the things we give them. Likewise with girls, when we deal with it, we have to have our own way. so that they can more quickly understand what we are telling them and in essence we want the best for all of them whether they are still children or have grown up later.

When we raise children, whether they are boys or girls, we must give them the same treatment because if not what we are afraid of will happen, namely that it will have an impact on social inequality which will ultimately affect their mental health in a way that If you raise them well, they can live well and achieve what they dream of in this life and don't forget that as parents you must provide encouragement to your children, both male and female, in the same way because in the family there is no make a difference to achieve a happy future.

That's my post this time and I would like to thank all my friends who have read it.

I invite my friends @kunwal, @pelon53, @sualeha, happiness is always there for my friends.

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