Hello My Steemain Friends ,

How are you. I hope you people of steemian are good and enjoy your life . Well I am well. May God bless you all. Today I am writing about an interesting Steemit Engagement Challenge S13 - W3: which is all time my favourite topic "Is drama only for women or is it also for men?" So, in this post I am going to share my point of view about this topic.

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Thankyou one of my favourite Community Steem For Ladies for organised this beautiful contest. I hope you people like and enjoy my post.

It is in someone's nature to show drama. But according to me, the people who show the most drama. His nature is not considered good. Be it male or female, dramas are shown only by those of the opposite sex who have the strength to tolerate their dramas. Whose husband or wife is ready to tolerate their tantrums. Their partners pretend to show them as much. I don't know how to pretend, I am a very simple woman.

No, I am not dramatic by nature at all. Because I don't like to trouble my family at all. Even after doing the play, when I have to do the work in the end, then to whom should I show the play and why should I show it? I don't like to exaggerate. Whatever I say, I say it in a very direct manner and in clear words. I don't like to trouble anyone at all, that's probably why I have a good bonding with everyone and people don't hesitate in sharing their problems, happiness and sorrows with me.

My husband is a bit dramatic. He is very hardworking, he doesn't like to relax easily. But sometimes when he falls ill or has a headache, his drama starts. Everyone follows them around. Eat this, do this and it becomes like a homely environment.

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At that time, headache is also a big deal. On the contrary, if I have a headache then the same noise, everything remains the same as on normal days, so this is the only difference.

If I fall ill, if it is a minor thing, just a fever, then I do not tell anyone. If I get such a phone call or have to do some work from someone that I have to refuse, then I tell, otherwise I don't tell anyone about minor illnesses. If something big happens, I definitely tell my parents (brother and sister-in-law).

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Because sometimes a conclusion emerges from discussion but I do not tell anything dramatically. I keep it hidden from anyone else until I have a strong need to tell. Because I know that if I tell anything to my brothers, they will get very upset.

I tell things as they happened in the incident. I do not make it a drama by adding things from my side. What will happen by telling him, even if you have a lot of trouble, you have to bear it and if there is a lot of expenditure, then you have to bear it yourself. So there is no question of adding drama to it and neither do I like it.

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My sister-in-law, she presents many things dramatically, so today the situation is that no one in our house believes anything she says. No matter how big a thing she tells, we say, she is lying. Is . So all I have to say is tell the truth. One should not create so much drama that the person considers your statement as a lie without listening, knowing or proving it.

We should make our personality such that a person can trust you blindly and if someone trusts you, then understand that this is the result of the good work done in your life.

No, I have never created any kind of drama in my life, neither public nor family, because my husband and children get worried if I get even slightly ill, so I stand up for my family with full strength. I am present. Even when my children feel sad sometimes, I say that there is no need to be sad. Now when mom and dad are near you. Eat, drink, be happy, there is no need to worry, we both husband and wife care about each other and our children. They try to take full care of themselves and their health and the environment of their home. In my house I feel no one does much drama. Neither me, nor my husband, nor my children. Yes, sometimes my husband's style becomes a little dramatic compared to me. But I think that they do not get rest the whole day, they remain busy in their work the whole day, so if they get even a little headache, it is natural to get confused.

I want to invite my friends to take part in this contest: @ripon0630 , @o1eh , @pandora2010 , @pelon53 , @sduttaskitchen , .

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