Contest / "Attractive and yet Single"

Hello and season greetings to this wonderful Steem for Ladies platform, I am honored to share my view in this great contest organized by @ninapenda.

First of all, let's start with the word single; this means a state of being unmarried while the word Attractive means pleasing to the senses.

This are the side attractions for being single;
First of all, being single helps you make more time for yourself by so doing, you get to really understand the kind of person you really are, your likes, dislikes.
Being single makes you go closer to God and you tend to spend more time in meditation and studying the word.
Being single also makes one decision makers of their selves.
This is one of the best I guest, being single, you are not answerable to anyone or anybody, if you fault, you are only answerable to yourself.
Being single helps you focus more as you are only dependent on yourself.

I would say yes. The reason for my " yes" at which a lady or a guy is the cause of their singlehood are:
Attitude: this really matters a lot. Having bad attitude is one of the reasons why I think some guy or ladies are the cause of their single hood.

Domestic violence: another strong reason why some guys or ladies are the cause of their singlehood. So instead of staying in a violent relationship, they remain single. No one loves violence.

Holding on to the past of an ugly relationship is one reason why some guys or ladies are still single.

Fear of loving the wrong person.

Another reason why I think a guy or lady is the cause of their single hood is because they are yet to understand the relationship skills.

Impatience

Love of money, this is because they are just there for the money , no love , no understanding.

Things to do to get off single hood are as follows;
Cultivate a good attitude.

Try to always take yourself out on dates.

Try to mingle, put down your pride.

Keep a smiling and friendly face, that doesn't stop you from being strict. Always squeezing your face wont get you a serious relationship.

Always look good .

Be humble and kind.

Being attractive is not all about the physical beauty but the inner beauty.
This includes your loyalty, honesty, good character, taking good care of yourself, growing yourself spiritually in God's word, good manner of approach and always being well presented.

Thank you for taking out time to read my little opinion, am grateful.