SHARE YOUR PERSONAL EXPERIENCE ON THE EFFECT OF THE OTHER WOMAN.

MY first very bad encounter with the other woman was in 2012, in Florida, South Africa. We were six years into our marriage, and I just had my second child.
The pregnancy was a very difficult one.

I developed asthma, so throughout the pregnancy I was coughing, this exerted a lot of pressure on me.
When the baby came after nine months,I was still feeling weak, so I was not very sexually disposed.
Two months after I had the baby,a single mother moved into the block of flats we lived in.
I started sensing something was wrote at the third month.
I noticed my husband was keeping a lot of late nights.
The other woman lived on the second floor.
I knew there was another woman quite close to me.
It wasn't long this brought herself to My house, she came as a friendly neighbor.
Anytime she's in my living room, she would be staring at our wedding pictures, I played a long until she missed a step.
She started inviting my son to her house .
One day she even invited him to her house for Sunday lunch. I said okay we go together.
It was when I entered her house that I saw on her wash line a fac simile of a t-shirt my husband was wearing in recent times.
Bingo I have found the missing piece of the puzzle.
I kept my cool.
I have always been an early bird, this time I told myself, you must keep awake at all cost.
I waited till about 10pm, I looked my front door and put the key in my bra.
BY eleven pm, my husband's phone started ringing, I pretended as if I was fast asleep.
When he got to the front door and couldn't find his way out,he was forced to stay back.
The following morning this desperate woman was at my door step again.
I told her I knew who she was and what she wanted.
She called my husband immediately,manipulating him on how I insulted her,who just came to my house to help with a sick child.

That night we fought like cats and dogs.
She was listening to us.
The following is as I wanted to use it lift she ran in after me, she was making faces and laughing at me.

I went to the police station to report a case of trespassing and trying to kidnap My child.
I was directed to go to the nearest court and get a restraining order against her.

               When I got to the court premises, my first shock was seeing my husband's car at the parking lot.

The second shock was as I entered the court lobby I Saw my son who is gone to school sitting on this other woman's lap and she was filling out a form to take my son away from me that I was an unfit mother.
Impulsively I dashed at her, I gave her a very dirty slap.
I tongue lashed her until she bursted into tears.
To cut a long story short I filled the restraining order and went back home.
I notified my pastor,who came to the house to settle matters.
I also reported to the care taker of the compound.
She called my husband that night and told him that she had gotten money that they should move to another area with my son.
This woman was an agent from the pit of hell sent to destroy my son's destiny.
She underestimated the power of a praying mother.
By the following week my husband was back to his senses.
We had to move out of that area, but the harm had already been done.
It came to a point I will be carrying a knife in my hand bag for self protection from the other woman.
We moved into a beautiful house in a quiet suburb , but my mind couple still feel the pain it went through at Florida.
Sometimes I will just sit alone and begin with cry.
The anger was so strong, my husband and I drifted apart which culminated in separation.
It's twelve years, my children are grown, but the pain has not eased.
I pray someday God will bring complete and total healing to

me.