SEC13 WK5: We are not perfect!

Hello Everyone!
Hope you all are doing well and living a healthy life. I found this interesting topic to write in the contest SEC13 WK5: We are not perfect! Organized by Steem For Ladies. As a starting note, I just want to say that doing error is human nature and being a perfect is not attainable.

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What do you want from life?

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Our life is a reflection of our Karma, what we want from life is not important for me, rather what I get from life according to my Karma. I am thankful to life, whatever I am getting.

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Peace of mind!

A calm mind is the key of successful life. Life become stressful when we started to become over ambitious and want to do things perfectly. We must understand that there is nothing like perfect. Of course by practicing something we can reach near perfection but still human always makes mistakes. There is a say like only live person make mistakes not dead. So we should not fear of mistake, but learn something from mistake will give a peace of mind and positive attitude towards life, not stress.

A happy and healthy life

There is nothing bigger wealth than Health. Life is meaning less if we are wealthy but not healthy. Health is not something we can buy! It needs to be achieved. A peaceful and calm mind always leads us towards a healthy life. If we are healthy and living a with positive attitude, it becomes easy to generate wealth according to our requirement and capacity.

Relationship

I believe in quality of relations rather than quantity. There should be strong bond in relationship with family and friends. It doesn't matter how many friends, important is how strong is your relationship.

What are your fears?

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I do not have negative attitude towards life but have some fear about it. I always want to live my life with positive attitude irrespective of any favorable or unfavorable situation in the life. After all, we are human beings and being always positive or negative is not possible. But keeping positive mindset most of the time keep us motivating and fearless.

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Another fear I can say is glossophobia, I never given any speech in public. Although it is a very common fear among most of the people, I would like to speak on my favorite topic, veganism.

“Fear of missing out” (FOMO) is a term generally used in trading. Yes I also face this many times but trying to control over it to be a successful trader.

What are your strengths?

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I don't know but yes I can say that not getting disappointed and depress in unwanted situation is my strength. Keeping overselves motivated in ups and down of life is not an easy task because human being can't be free from emotions. It is not like that I never get disappointed or depressed, but negative phase of my life remain short, and I try to overcome soon.

Another thing that I feel as my strength is on time delivery. I always try to be delivered to whatever assigned to me. Getting late makes me restless, so I try to be punctual all the time.

What are your flaws?

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I am somewhat like introvert person. If being an introvert is a flaw, then yes, it's my flaw. But sometimes I feel some advantages of being introvert. Like possibly due to that I am a good listener, I believe in selective socialization, and enjoy solitude.

Another flaw I feel is that most of the time I take decision emotionally where it should be taken rationally or mindfully. I faced many draw-downs due to my this habit. E.g., I landed money to someone and later if he is not able to repay, it becomes very difficult for me to force him to pay money back. Due to that, I also faced some financial losses.

What can you do to become a better version of yourself?

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Scope of improvement in any personalty is always there but still not easy to overcome fully due to a particular mind set already established. I have to overcome my fear of public speaking, as I am a vegan activist and want to spread awareness about veganism through public speech. I can argue in groups, but not on stage.

Another thing I want to improve is patience. I was used to being very impatient (as feedback given by friends). But I have improved a lot to become a patience person, but still need to work more on it.

I want to improve my decision-making. Important decisions should be taken mindfully, not emotionally.

Conclusion

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Getting perfection is an achievement in life but on the other hand to attain perfection stage a lot of stress and failure also comes together. I think getting perfection up to the limit where we do not lose our peace of mind is the best perfection level for any individual.
Hope you have enjoyed reading my post. Please leave your feedback in comments. I invite @yoelmo26, @aprendeconkevin and @aprendeconkevin to take part in the contest.